Hi I (m) don’t know how to find people who want to have sex. Relationships aren’t for me, I’ve had some bad experiences and don’t like the responsibility of it. I’ve never had sex before but am almost always horny and really want to. But I don’t know how to go about asking girls to fuck. Please help me
Hello everyone, I have two questions I've been thinking about.
So i have a girlfriend for the last 10 years and sex always been good. I'm 26 and she's 27.
I notice lately that my penis isn't getting as big and fat as it used to. I know I was a teenager by then but it's seems like I don't get as hard as I used to.
I started working a couple of years ago and life as been a little more stressful lately, idk if is because of that, but I'm afraid I'm declining somehow and I thinks she notice once or twice and started asking if I don't think she's sexy anymore.
One thing I notice it's that my semen also started to be less milky and more water. It used to be more thick and cream.
Is there a way to train almost like gym to try and get better? Should I train myself cumming more or saving it for the special occasions?I heard that I should like mastubate and try to cum for that the body it's forced to produce more, but idk if it's the other way around.
Sorry for the long text and any help is welcome!
As a fat man I've always thought my 'size' was small due to everything else on me being pretty big tbh
So the real question is lol is 6.3 inches and 1.9 inches width I'm not too sure about the width though sorry lol.but Is this good?,I've had no sexual experience lol so that's why I'm asking.✌😭
Please dm me, ovulating so hard rn
I am a young woman, I am 20 years old. I'm looking for a man around my age to sexting with. I'd like him to tell me what to do, when to start, when to stop, and when to pleasure myself ect.
I don't want to send photos of my face or body. I only want texting or over time, maybe voice messages or voice call. You can send your photos if you want, but I won't. I value my privacy. I'm still a virgin. I like to masturbate hard. Please text me if you are interested. ❤️❤️
I’m F(20), partner is M(21). I’m very high-libido and affectionate. I still want sex multiple times a day and initiate often, but I wish he’d initiate too.
We’ve talked about it a lot. He says he’s just not that sexual. Our current frequency is already more than his past relationships, though way less than how we started. The constant rejection is killing my confidence and making me feel undesirable. I’m terrified of losing our spark and becoming roommates. I don’t expect multiple times a day — 2-3x a week of mutual, wanted sex would be enough. I just don’t know how to bring it up anymore without making him feel guilty or like it’s a chore.
The bigger issue is we have opposite kinks. He’s submissive and wants to be overpowered/told what to do. I’m submissive and masochistic and need that dynamic ∼80% of the time to feel satisfied. He’d be fine with vanilla forever.
I’ve spent months trying to be dominant for him, but it’s not in me. It makes me anxious and we both end up unsatisfied — him because I’m not into it, me because it’s not what I want. Our vanilla sex is amazing, but D/s is involved in some way most of the time.
I recently told him I’m submissive, but we haven’t acted on it because I feel guilty asking him to dom when I know he doesn’t want to. I feel like I’m lying during sex and that we’re too far gone to fix it. I can’t fault him for not reading my mind, but I also can’t keep pretending.
Is there any way forward when both libido and core kinks are incompatible? Or is this just sexual incompatibility?
TL;DR:
F(20) high libido, M(21) low libido. Constant rejection is killing my confidence. We also have opposite kinks — he’s submissive, I’m submissive/masochistic and need it ∼80% of the time. I’ve tried being dominant and can’t; it makes us both miserable. Vanilla sex is great but rare. I feel like I’m lying during sex and we’re too far gone. Can opposite libidos + opposing core kinks ever work, or is this just incompatibility?
So last night we tried to have sex and when we did he couldn’t stay hard and said it was because I don’t cuddle him or anything like that even though we had a conversation about me not liking affection as I wasn’t brought up like that he was though.
I don’t know what to do because this isn’t the first time it’s happened and we’ve just had a baby and I simply don’t have the time or the energy to be the same woman I was before, I’m just so fed up of him expecting this from me.
I think my boyfriend has ruined the sex for me and I cry each time I think about it.
We were having sex a couple weeks ago and my boyfriend was going very rough and fast and he accidentally slipped his dick and shoved it into my ass and then I started screaming and crying in pain for five minutes (it was the worst pain I’ve ever felt) ، and it happened twice.. he ofc apologized and feels awful but it keeps happening and I feel trauma to the point where I cant get turned on anymore and I know my boyfriend wants sex but I still feel the pain till now.. it still hurts to poo and he wants anal and I try to explain that I cant do it anymore I feel bad because he’s the sweetest man ever and is so kind to me.
I also got an injury first time we had sex because we went raw couple times a day for five days and I feel like my inside skin was ripped off and I stayed in bed screaming and crying in pain for five days.. I couldn’t do sex for two weeks, god I feel awful writing this. I just wish for my sex life to become normal again. I just wish I can be intimate again. I’m crying writing this. I just feel like the pain never go away and I cant ever feel safe or do sex normally again. It just feels weird and off and I feel like it’ll happen again. It’s so uncomfortable. I just do it for him to satisfy my boyfriend needs and that’s it..
Because of the incident I’ve been pushing him away each time he comes for a cuddle, a hug or a kiss because I’m afraid but I love him so much.. we went from having sex everyday to two or one time a week and I feel bad.?
I have always produced a lot of precum at even the slightest arousal. As a teenager, I would have wet boxers from just making out with a girl. Now at 38, it’s even more.
My question is do women think this is hot or is it a turn off?
Looking for a casual sex partner. No strings attached.
Hello, first time poster so fingers crossed I don’t jaff this up.
I ‘43f’ have been in a relationship for 3 years with my ‘42m’ partner. Early on in the relationship he advised me that he had had male partners but wasn’t gay, he just liked the sensation.
I have occasionally accommodated this, and provided some him time with some bedroom accessories. No issue, not my fav thing but I think it’s good that we all get what we need.
We are both alright with our sex drive, but I found that I occasionally have been losing mine mid foreplay.
The reason for this is, I’m the one doing all of the foreplay. The other night he lay back for 45 mins and took oral (until my mouth dried up and I couldn’t continue). By this point it had become a chore, and I wasn’t in any way aroused.
Anyway, the only way to move on from this so I could go home was to attempt sex. It hurt… a lot!
I want to add that he isn’t always like this, sometimes he does try… a little, but it doesn’t happen often and it doesn’t last long. I think this is because I’m quite ‘messy’ and he doesn’t want to get hit in the face with a canon! Fair I guess, but I feel very disconnected from him and don’t know how to bring this up.
Advice, is there a way to discuss this with him that doesn’t sound unreasonable, or is there another way to stay connected that doesn’t require him to be a conduit of reactive intimacy?
I am not a social person, nor am i really a picky person when it comes to sex and the attributes of partners, and i don't like bothering people. With that, i'd like to know where to find sex.
I ask this because i realized a few days ago i do not wish to find romance although i am willing to be romantic and kind and loving to sex partners. This is because i am an antinatalist (funny enough i'm planning a vasectomy right now) and also because i don't want to be like my dad who abused me and my mum.
Now i am obviously aware going up to women on the steet or pub and asking for it even politely is rude, makes them uncomfortable, and will probably get me punched full force in the face.
I'm perfectly willing to give pleasure as well, you know, oral, fingering, because you gotta be considerate right? And i'm not exactly a fussy person when it comes to threesomes or groups.
But again i can't just tell random women i meet i'm perfectly fine wearing protection and eating them out. Also this question is too embarrassing to ask on a main account that's why this account is so young
for context I am 18F and am fwb w a guy 27M . He usually calls me baby during sex and I wanted to call him daddy during it bc I feel like it would signify that im his sexdoll and would be hot since he's a lot older than me .However I get that a large amount of men find that title gross , and I would like to preface by saying that I do not have a daddy kink nor am I a little or want to do roleplay or wtv( not that there's anything wrong w that ofc) I js simply find the title hot however I am unsure whether he will be grossed out by it and I would not find it as fun if he's not turned on by it asw . Additionally he does have and has used bdsm equipment in the past (although not on me )and has choked me without actually harming me during sex so maybe he would not be to opposed to the idea and might like it . Idk tho do ygs think he's most likely going to find the Daddy title hot . do u think I should ask him and if yes how should I go abt doing it .
I'm 24M and I'm struggling with premature ejaculation. During sex, I usually ejaculate within around 1–2 minutes in the first round, and even after taking a break, I can finish similarly quickly in the second and third rounds.
The biggest problem is that my partner often remains unsatisfied. We've tried multiple times to make things better, but I'm still struggling to control when I finish. She's now becoming frustrated and has told me that she doesn't see the point in continuing if I can't satisfy her.
Honestly, this is affecting my confidence quite a lot. I don't want to blame her, and I understand why she's frustrated. At the same time, I don't know how to improve the situation.
For anyone who has dealt with something similar:
I'm looking for genuine experiences and practical advice, not jokes or unrealistic "last forever" expectations.
Thanks.
Hey! I’m a 23-year-old guy, and I’m just looking to meet someone new and have some genuine conversations.
I’d especially like to talk to a girl around my age and hopefully build a good friendship over time. Nothing weird or sexual, and no pressure at all — just casual conversations, getting to know each other, sharing random thoughts, talking about life, hobbies, movies, music, or whatever we happen to enjoy.
I’m pretty easygoing and believe good friendships start with simple, comfortable conversations. If you’re also looking for someone to chat with and make a new friend, feel free to comment or message me.
No expectations — just hoping to meet a nice person. :)
My boyfriend is too tall (6’1) and I’m too short for him (5’6) we realllyyyy want to fuck in the shower but we tried and it was basically impossible. I don’t want him to lift me up because well.. it’s a shower and I’m scared of slipping. Pleaseeee give me suggestions