😭😭after the unfortunate closure of bato, qtoon and others, I have a very serious question to today's youth.
Where to read bl manhwa?
Please don't write lezhin, if I were that rich I would've exploded long ago.
You talk to the people you love for an hour and a half. You try to explain them your point, why you want something, or you don't want something, why you are feeling like this, why you are, you know, something that you're going through, something that you want to share, and something you are genuinely upset about. And the end conclusion that they make is just exactly opposite of what you were trying to say. You were trying to say about you, like, I have this problem with this thing, or I want to do this, and then they just move on and saying like, oh, so you mean I am bad? Or, oh, I get it, you are always correct, I am always wrong. I hate this line. Like, grow up. What, what is your age? Like, are you 10, 12, or like 13? What, what is your age? You are 40 plus. Grow up. What I am trying to say is something about me, something that I am upset about or anything. It is about me. It is not about you. Why don't you get it? And you just put your heart into it, just in trying to explain someone because you love them. You love them so much that you want to explain them, you want them to know what is happening to you, but they just don't really care. They just, maybe they just, maybe they don't really like you. Maybe they just like the idea of you. I feel like that, but, but you cannot let them go because you love them, right? So you stick with them, and after every single phone call, it's just... If your mood drops to a certain level before, it was during the last call, like, if it was on negative 60, your mood just dropped to negative 40 now. It just keeps on dropping. Yeah. And I know, many of you will say that, you know, stop trying to explain your point, but that is for the people you don't know about, you know. You don't care. I'll never explain to a person I don't care about. Whatever they think, it's their problem, but I really want this person to know what I am feeling. I really care about their opinion. I really, it really matters to me. But they are just so rigid and they refuse to change. Like, they say, I have been living like this for so many years and I cannot change now. And I'm like, okay, fine, sorry. But then the next second, they turn to you and then they ask you, like, okay, you have the same bad habits as me, but since I'm old, I cannot change. But you are young, so you can change. So you know, I am going to continue both bad habits, but you have to change and you have to become better. How is that even possible? You know, you need to change the environment to change yourself, right? You cannot expect a flower to bloom in a puddle, except for if it's a lotus, but in general, like... If you want a flower, you need to have flower beds, you need to have a garden. How can you expect just because you are saying that puddle is going to stay the puddle, but you know, the weed should turn into a flower. How is that possible? But, um, seems they are too old for that. But um, whenever I try to explain things to the people I love, whenever I try to tell them that, okay, this is this and this is this, and I'm planning to do this, the answer that I get is, okay, okay, we don't know anything about this, you do you. No, okay, good, well done. You have a great plan. Nothing has been ever concerned, no one has been ever concerned about what my actual plan was. They just want me to finish my sentence so that they can say, you do you. And the next moment, when I do me, like I do what I want to do, they just stand there and they say that, oh, this is not such a nice idea. You know what, you do what I am telling you to do. Even though I have zero knowledge of this idea, but just because I have heard it from my friends and other people, so I am telling you that this is good for you, even though you clearly know that maybe this might not be good enough, maybe the person that they have heard from is not a good person, maybe they are far below your level, but... what is this, right? Such hypocrisy. And then you just keep on trying to, you know, forgive them for their mistake because you love them, because you want them as a part in your life. You genuinely love them, but really after every phone call it just gets so harder and harder.
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What are their height?
200cm and 150cm?
I was following this manhwa till around 70+ chapters but then ig they turned it into reverse harem or something where this guy, his older brother and her ex husband all want her. What the hell? I really shipped the older brother with the bodyguard but alas.
And what is with her body proportions? How can a woman be only fat at her "attractive" areas? That's not how it works dear author- nim.
I don't hate the manhwa, I actually really liked it. It was one of the first straight manhwas I started reading but it was becoming so boring taht I dropped it.
Can anyone tell what's going on currently in this
For everyone whose saying such body types exist in real life. I know. But tell me which woman in her 30s who was once married is as naive as our fl? I ask the women, are they really this timid and fragile? And yea, the ml with his crazy jacked body and nonchalant I-can-handle-everythin-alone vibe. We talk about body positivity so much in real life, on Instagram but we want perfect bodies when it comes to our entertainment. Does this mean skinny or fat people(no offense) cannot be main characters? Imagine a 13 year old reading this beacuse tahts tge age when you stumble across this! Reading about a timid girl getting all attention from men what do you think she'll do? Or think about a guy reading this. He'll think he has to be strong and nonchalant in order to get respect from others, that he cannot cry or show weakness beacuse that's not how the main characters work(I'm talking in a generic sense about most manhwas). Isn't this patriarchal? Binding men and women in societal norms. Isn't this the same thing movies had been doing for a long time?
I'm a female entp but I don't really meet other entps and the online representation mostly shows men so I wanna know how are the women out there and what are their interests and struggles
I'm an entp and I'm scared. I'm a pendulum, I swing between things pretty hard. One moment I'm tge most carefree person on the earth and the very next moment you will find me unable to move due to anxiety.
I know that entps have a little chaotic personality and difficulty in managing things and sticking to the routine during their 20s but I'm genuinely scared as I feel that these are my precious years and I'll loose them in the process and won't be able to achieve something big.