u/marcusbydefault

I feel like it’s interesting how the world has become so unisex and fluid now. Men have long hair down to their buttocks, hair up in buns, outlandish hair color, and now you got “men” rocking bonnets. All this is wild.

People are allowed to be expressive so I get that part but it’s just.. hmm 🤔

In earlier years (and even now still in some places) gay men would be clowned and bashed for doing what “straight men” are doing now.

The hypocrisy has me gagged 😲

Men use to wear caps, hoodies, and durags if anything, now it’s bonnets? Nose rings? Nose piercings? Earrings in both ears?

Don’t get me started on men with leg and thigh tattoos.. that just screams f*galicious. Like who you showing your legs and thighs off for? 😐

I feel like some things should be for females.

Despite being gay and many ppl thinking we all wanna be females I have my feminine tendencies but love wearing boy clothes and hyping up my female friends like the queens they are. Cuz I believe a male can’t truly tell a female how to be a woman nor can a woman tell a male how to be a man.

Maybe I’m the last of a dying breed of ppl who can’t get with or approve everything for validation or fear of being viewed as a hater or controversial at any point by anyone 🤷🏽‍♂️

I feel like it’s interesting and sad how Black Love is pretty much nonexistent at this point. Every commercial you see and even IRL (from my experience) you come across a black man (I use the term loosely) and a Becky. It’s always expected of a black woman to stand by a bman but a lot of bmen today are colorists who clearly don’t feel the same way about bwomen. And I truly feel like a lot of ppl see black dudes as a fetish.

Not to mention every time you hear a black dude talk about their “type” is always something that starts or ends with “No dark skin”.. something like that. Why put down one race for another? Everything has to be compared and competitive? That’s corny af. And that’s why I feel like now ppl are so sensitive when you say things that are controversial to them because they don’t wanna discuss race and have the spotlight shine on their colorism and hatred for black women.

And no, we’re not gonna make it seem like all black women are ghetto and hateful cuz we can also flip it and say the same about black dudes.

And yes I’m a gay male and I’m discussing heterosexual relations as this thing is very similar and no different in the 🌈 world.

The way this world has shifted and colorism has been amplified and normalized.. I’m good with living my life happily single and watching funny YouTube videos.

(Ppl under the comments bouta label me a racist.. aaand GO 🏎️ 💨 🏎️ 💨 🏎️ 💨)

I feel like it’s interesting and sad how Black Love is pretty much nonexistent at this point. Every commercial you see and even IRL (from my experience) you come across a black man (I use the term loosely) and a Becky. It’s always expected of a black woman to stand by a bman but a lot of bmen today are colorists who clearly don’t feel the same way about bwomen. And I truly feel like a lot of ppl see black dudes as a fetish.

Not to mention every time you hear a black dude talk about their “type” is always something that starts or ends with “No dark skin”.. something like that. Why put down one race for another? Everything has to be compared and competitive? That’s corny af. And that’s why I feel like now ppl are so sensitive when you say things that are controversial to them because they don’t wanna discuss race and have the spotlight shine on their colorism and hatred for black women.

And no, we’re not gonna make it seem like all black women are ghetto and hateful cuz we can also flip it and say the same about black dudes.

And yes I’m a gay male and I’m discussing heterosexual relations as this thing is very similar and no different in the 🌈 world.

The way this world has shifted and colorism has been amplified and normalized.. I’m good with living my life happily single and watching funny YouTube videos.

(Ppl under the comments bouta label me a racist.. aaand GO 🏎️ 💨 🏎️ 💨 🏎️ 💨)

I find it interesting that Maya befriended this lady and was so impressionable.. about to mess up her flow of things that has been working out for her and HER SITUATION for a Negative Nancy she just met two minutes ago. And to turn on Joan when she’s been allowing you to live in her house for the past couple months rent free.. she’s such an ingrate.

And that scene when Maya told ole gurl “Hey Tasha I don’t wanna overstep..” and she responded “WELL DONT” • I was living for that scene! I felt like in that moment Maya got a taste of her own beef stew and someone came at her just like she dishes it out on the regular.

Golden’s character as Maya was relentless.. holy sh*t. Extremely ghetto and kinda abrasive. Don’t know why Joan didn’t just fire her and drop her as a friend. The way she let her husband go off on her friend seasons back.. you don’t need enemies with friends like that. That outburst is still unsettling to me. He was very aggressive towards Joan and she didn’t deserve that.