Jeg fik en karakter ind i dag som var dumpet. Og jeg kan virkeligt ikke forstå det da jeg synes det gik godt og jeg opfyldte kravene. Det kan selvfølgelig godt være jeg bare havde klaret det dårligt. Men det er langt under hvad jeg forventede. Kan der ske fejl nogle gange eller er det altid hvad der står som er hvad det bliver. Karakteren kom også sådan 12 dage senere end deadline men kan forstå det ikke er unormalt
for me personally its "proffesional passive aggresiveness" thats basically attitude with extra steps. you can shout me in the face and I wont feel anything but a single "Per my last email…" i immediately get a cortisol spike and think "OH HELL NO" and type back the most passive aggressive mail with friendly emojis
I think in around my mid 20s i developed a fascination for people. Because I caught the pattern that its all about implications with them. the vast majority of things people say/express is actually meant to be interpreted symbolically. so for example a "I'll give you a ride home" isn't just a favor its also a subtle "i support / like you". It's all about saying stuff without actually saying stuff - y'know? It has also boosted my social skills because I can now catch the implications better.
But the thing that fascinates me is all the calibration NT's do. They will beat around the bush a lot instead of just asking. Recently a friend of mine ordered a meal and the worker heard wrong and my friend just changed opinion right then and there and said "Yeah that one". I refrained from saying anything because, Ive learned this is where reasoning doesn't help. But I still couldnt help but notice how fast he calibrated to avoid being a customer that was "too much". I dont think "Actually I meant X" is even rude. There is a huge gap between what people say and what they mean and I find that gap super interesting. The amount of detours people take to preserve social smoothness is a topic i could talk about for hours