u/mewchannn

Same as title

So I'm (24f) a Ronaldo fan since childhood, although I don't watch club football that much but I have always liked ronaldo more than other legendary players e.g. Messi, Neymar etc. My bf(25m) is a die hard Messi fan and we both were supportive of each other.

We were in a 1.5 yr long relationship and there were few secrets I have told him regarding my situation in my own family,that how much I need a job,how much I love my parents but don't get the love in return as they prefer my elder brother way more,so yeah i do feel left out and there's some toxicity in my family from which I do suffer and i wanna leave this place asap getting a job(my parents aren't bad).

Need to give one more back story is in March my bf's sister was bashing RCB fans(her point was bcz of DHONI N KOHLI ,RCB couldn't win for this many years,dhoni n kohli is worst etc)when they won IPL and some mutual people bashed her back. My bf was pampering his sister saying she was right and others were wrong at coming at her and during our conversation I told him that his sister is at fault in this case and if she's posting stories against them when they're just happily celebrating something then they'll ofcourse come at her/post stories against her statement and she should be able to handle that too and he got angry with me but yeah we somehow moved forward.

I was already down with viral fever for 4 days and watched football to feel bit alive.

Yesterday when argentina won,I told him lightly that the referee seem to be little biased towards Argentina and he got furious and started telling me "today you're doing the same and that day you were saying about my sister now look at you" . I said I'm not putting up stories to irritate the happy people and not even complaining about anyone dissing me,I just told you what I felt. and i added that you don't give reality check to your sister but hold grudge against me to give me that back is what I understood. Then he goes defending his sister unnecessarily again,I lost my calm n said I don't give a sh#t about that ,I only give some shi£ about you bcz I'm connected to you mainly not your sister or your family. Before i could complete my sentence he told me "you don't even give a shi£ about your own family,how can I expect you to give anything for my family" .

Something in me shattered in a fraction of second, tears started dropping from my eyes and i again asked him did you just say that. He was the only person I ever shared about my situation in my own home and he used that against me in an argument to win. I blocked him from everywhere,we are in long distance but I feel like it's something non negotiable.

Am I overreacting! I wonder