u/mia-v-p

About Me: I’m a bit introverted but good in groups of 2 or 3. I love tv drama but don’t like reality tv. Love gadgets, tech, and learning new things! I like going to cafes & restaurants, going to the movies or to artsy things like Lightscape or theatre. I’m a big leftie & passionate about equal rights and all things “woke”

What I'm Looking For: An engaged reciprocal friendship where we text all the time and catch up and hang out regularly on weekends or occasional weeknights. I’m based in South East near Dandenong but happy to drive 30-40 mins to catch up.

What I offer: I’m a loyal and engaged friend who is there for support as much as she is for fun. I easily take friendship from 0 to 100 and will always be absolutely transparent to the point of TMI lol. I never ghost people and am always there for people I care about.

Bit of Kevin Keegan with an Australian twist

I’m transgender- and expect this to be a problem in the dating world.
I’m fat - and expect this to be a problem in the dating world.
But yet again I’ve been rejected for having low/no sex drive.
I find this one hurts me so much more. I can’t even pretend to want sex. It’s just so alien to me.
But 99.99% of people seem to need it regularly.
And cause I miss out from that- I’m absolutely touch starved. I love affection. Hugs cuddles handholding hair stroking. But I can’t have that either cause everyone just wants to bone.
I’m really at my wits end of rejection. It’s so fucking hard, wanting something so simple and not being able to get the merest of physical contact.
I’m sure there’s studies about physical contact and mental health development, I must be so malnourished in this area.

Looking for experiences of anyone who works/worked an office 9-5 job where they came out as trans and transitioned into the new you. At what point did you change your name? Was it instantly? Phased in gradually? Did you have to get a completely new login at work or were they able to adjust your profile to your new name?