u/mikehwshin

tl;dr - I (30M) run a small delivery only restaurant by myself. Because of that, I work every day from about 8 AM to 10 PM, seven days a week. My business isn't doing well enough for me to hire help, so taking a day off is a pretty big decision financially.

My girlfriend (24F) knows all of this.

Since I'm exhausted after work, when we do see each other it's usually only for an hour or so. She'll occasionally ask if we can spend an entire day together on the weekend. She usually tells me about a week in advance, so I'll plan ahead and decide to close the restaurant for that day. That means I don't order ingredients, and I lose a day's worth of income. Even so, I'm happy to do it because I genuinely want to spend quality time with her.

The problem is that when the day finally comes, more often than not she doesn't wake up until around 5 PM because she stayed up all night playing computer games and doesn't go to sleep until the next morning. By the time she wakes up, she doesn't feel like going out, and we either don't meet at all or only see each other very briefly.

This has happened more than five times.

After the third time, I told her how frustrated I was. I explained that I'm making a real sacrifice by closing my business for the day, and when she sleeps through our plans it feels like she doesn't respect my time or the effort I'm making. Not only do I miss out on spending time with her, but I also lose money that I honestly need.

Instead of understanding where I'm coming from, she gets upset with me because she's tired and says I make her feel guilty.

At this point, I'm seriously questioning whether this relationship is worth continuing. It's not really about the gaming, it's about repeatedly making plans, knowing the sacrifices I have to make, and then not following through.

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