I don’t want to get super fat, so I focus on myself. When I see people here that have contempt for what fat people do or don’t do I assume they’re coping about something.
Maybe they’re skinny (for now) but still don’t like how they look, or maybe it takes a tremendous amount of effort for them to maintain their weight and they’re bitter, or maybe being skinny is literally the only thing they have in a dumpster fire life so they’re grasping at low-hanging fruit. Just contempt in general is such a dark emotion to witness and whenever I notice it in myself I try hard to do something else and get really weird about Eucharistic adoration for a while.
Conversely…someone being very happy that they aren’t fat isn’t particularly disordered. “Nothing tastes as good as being skinny feels” isn’t even that crazy to say