Found intimate videos of my husband & his ex’s
I recently discovered a large amount of intimate videos and images involving my husband and past “partners”and I also found that he is still in contact with some of these people, ive had a feeling that these particular girls and him may have something going on as id seeing messages popping up, when asked he would say it’s nothing, just friends. And that being friends with them is nothing. We’ve been married for one year, and I feel deeply uncomfortable, and honestly disgusted by what I saw. It has really shaken my trust in him and I don’t know how to process it or what to do next. I’m struggling a lot emotionally. Has anyone been through something similar, and how did you decide whether to try to work through it or move toward separation/divorce? Divorce isn’t easy as family is the involved. But I’m soo repulsed by him and his words/action seems fake. Of all the girls I just discovered he’s been with, he has individual folders with their pics & their videos.