u/moon_haven777

my hair is currently the longest it’s ever been in my life. i’ve had short hair pretty much my whole life and wanted to try growing it out. i liked it for a while but my hair has started to drive me crazy. it’s super thick so this summer has been brutal for me. it also makes me look way younger than i actually am. i’m 29 and i’ve had multiple people ask me where i go to school. i’d love to chop it off Rama Duwaji style, but i fear i am not as cool as her and i’m insecure about my lack of jawline. i don’t know if my face is strong enough for it. i would love to hear outside perspectives and advice on what i should do with my hair.
first pic is me now with long (for me) hair, second pic is me 5 years ago with shorter hair, third pic is Rama Duwaji and what i’d love to do with mine but i’m not sure if i’d look good with her hair.

I rarely hate things. I reserve hate for the soggy cheeto that’s in office and his followers. but man, i’m really starting to hate TS. i was a fan of hers wayyyyyyy back in her “Our Song” days and loved 1989. but something about her really rubbed me the wrong way during her “Folklore” and “Evermore” days. Releasing two albums during a global pandemic was….a choice. she put people in danger just to sell her music. i remember my friend being obsessed with these albums and ordered the cardigan that was like 80 something dollars and $100 after shipping. it took 6 months for her to receive it.
i stopped following her after that and just ignored her. the eras tour is when she really started bothering me. i knew someone who bought NINE tickets just to see her as much as possible. and i know other people who went to more than one of her eras tour concerts. seeing videos of her singing live being SHOVED down my throat started to get to me and i realised that she’s not even that good of a singer. she’s been performing for basically her whole life and has never gotten voice lessons. that’s just crazy to me. i’m a professional singer who’s been singing as long as i’ve been able to talk. i’m 29 now and i still take voice lessons because i believe there’s always room for improvement.
the eras tour was basically a pollution tour, and she just LOVES polluting the earth with all her private jet use.
her becoming a billionaire and not speaking out in this political climate were it for me. you ONLY become a billionaire through exploitation and wealth hoarding, and her not saying anything while people are being murdered in the street in broad daylight is CRAZY to me. the swifties only make it worse with their incessant insistence that it would be “dangerous” for her to speak out and that’s she’s “spoken out in the past”. bullshit. she’s a billionaire with the best security in the world, and if she’s spoken out in the past, why isn’t she speaking out now??? they insist that they’re progressive feminists and then defend her being a billionaire and not speaking out politically. any critical post anyone makes about TS, the swifties come in droves, bullying the person and listing all the reasons they think that person is wrong.
they make it worse. they make me hate her MORE. it’s like no one is allowed to criticise their holy glorious leader. it’s CREEPY and cult like.
all that to say, i don’t understand how people continue to prop her up and worship her when she’s mediocre at best and a billionaire grifter at worst.

thinking about chopping my hair off

[28f] i felt really pretty today✨

Monica’s outfits in “The one with the flashback”

i think i hate her

Is it just me, or is the pacing in season 5 unbearably slow?