hii im making this tshirt and wanted some opinions on where the scorpion should go!! also do you think i can add anything to this.. i have some leftovers from the same fabrics used on the scorpion
2 months into my tragus piercing this popped up, haven't downsized it due to it being usually kind of swollen and now this bump came in like 3 days ago, at first it was whiteish color but today after shower ive noticee that it has started to bleed a bit. ive only used sterile saline spray and been drying it after showers with the cooling mode of my hairdryer ever since ive got it.
i should probably don't touch it and keep using the spray/ also keep an eye on it but still wanted to see if there are any extra advices
hello im 20f and from my two past experiences with my boyfriend i'm almost pretty sure that i have vaginismus, i can only take in about 2/3 of my middle finger and there seems to be a wall of flesh past that point (also the pain is unbearable obv)
i've done some research and there aren't many options for dilators in my country so i thought maybe i'd start without some??? with just trying to explore myself further??
i thought i'd do these stretches for vaginismus by bien austria on youtube (im sorry if i shouldn't be giving out channel names here) and after that i could warm myself up with some light masturbating, then work with my fingers, try to feel where i'm tense and try relaxing..
there was a time when my bf didn't say that he was gonna put it in and i remember that one felt different, it was like his thing was going through a flesh tunnel without pain? IM SO SORRY THIS IS SO WEIRD TO TALK ABOUT and this one thing got me thinking maybe i could achieve this without dilators
is this routine i came up with okay? any tips from people who got there without dilators maybe? also could that one time mean that i just need to properly relax and get used to the idea of something being inside me isn't a bad thing
hello, im (20f) a virgin and ive got a boyfriend that i really trust/love! we've tried for the first time some days ago and he could only put it halfway there before it became super painful for me. i'll admit i wasn't super aroused at that time and we didn't have any lube so the timing was pretty off perhaps.
ive also tried fingering myself for the first time (this time i did it right before i felt like orgasming so i was pretty wet) but halfway through my middle finger, there's a wall-like thing blocking, i just couldn't get my finger past that. i feel like vaginismus should not be a thing for me, i never felt pressured for religiously and never had any bad experiences. it feels kind of intimidating something being inside me but everyone has that i think..
what id love some advice on is what should i pay attention the next time we're trying. i can't go to a gynecologist anytime soon and i wanna see what i can do before actually suspecting vaginismus! are there any good positions to try on, affirmations, or just anything really! thank you in advance!!