u/moth3ss

I will keep this brief.

I am completely new to BIM modelling as of a few months ago. absolutely ground 0 knowledge. company needed help doing asbuilts. coworker who also started at ground 0 trained me. I forgot to be checking asbuilts against design for clashes and I didn't have a workflow template to do this in an organized way and keep track of what asbuilt points were there, besides having a gazillion CAD files open. clash happened. concrete pour. Expensive. My fault for not catching. everyone mad and stressed. 60hr week and likely more to follow

I've looked into how to prevent this moving forward but I'm so embarrassed and scared to show up on Monday. feels horrible. how did anyone come back from this? from a mistake this expensive?

I (F) have been working out consistently for about a year and a half from point 0 and I had the most flattering, sweet experience yesterday. This girl around the gym had kept catching my eye as I was doing my leg routine. Near the end she came up and really sweetly asked me to show her how I was doing B stance RDLs earlier. I couldn't believe it because I'm still fine tuning everything I do and feel like a noob most of the time. It was just really sweet to me that another girl felt comfortable asking ME for help. I've also cold approached people before (not in the gym) and know it's absolutely nerve wrecking. So I just thought it was really sweet and also reassuring of my own progress (:

I was at a birthday party a few days ago. A pretty fancy one so it was at a venue, drinks, dinner, etc.

Anyway, I was standing with my (24F) partner and this older woman (perhaps 60s, not sure) bumped into me and simultaneously touched my butt right on the cheek, palm to it and everything. I don't know if I'm being crazy because she was older, maybe she didn't see where she was walking clearly or her hand was just positioned that way. I also struggle seeing why an older woman would do that? My boyfriend thinks she did it on purpose because there was plenty of open space next to me, yet she practically walked into me from behind. I immediately apologized after even though I was standing still (instinctual) and she turned around and just kind of waved me off.

Does this even happen, do older women sometimes grope younger women on purpose? I'm having trouble believing that to be the case, or why it happens because it just seems backwards to me. I recognize that confusion comes from some casual sexism I've absorbed over the years.

every time I listen to it I always hear "It would still be all my fault, it would still be all my fault either way," and although I know those are not the lyrics when I sing it that way it comforts me a bit more lol.

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"I will still be up by fall" is also comforting though. don't go hollow!

Normally this song to me is about a lover imposing his dominant feelings onto a new person in a coy, playful, but ultimately consensual way. After watching Obsession I was listening to it and it made me think of the way Bear views Nikki and it became a little more twisted to me. Can anyone else see this perspective or am I just making things up?

"Love, can you love me babe? Love, is this loving babe?"

Mine's probably Public Pervert or the Length of Love one.

Also enjoy The Undoing mix with Moths. (: