recently i have gotten back into the rave/edm scene and want to be more creative with my fits. i find that a lot of western brands tend to cater to the “less clothes/punk/fetisthwear” looks for things but I want to lean more into cyber wears and futuristic motifs. Is anyone privy to Japanese brand (or brands from all over idc) that cater to that imagery?
Yesterday I went to a restaurant that had a wide selection of raw oysters to sample. Two of them (Goose Point and Cadillac Mountain) had barnacles still left on the shell. I told the waitress that it kinda disturbed me a bit that they were still there and that they should look out more for that in the back.
I know barnacles are safe, they aren’t in the oyster, and all of them were dead when my mouth touched the oyster shell. BUT, I also know you can clip them off if you see them. Additionally, I didn’t ask for a refund or anything, I was just looking at the shells beforehand.
I am new to eating raw oysters (Delaware Bay and Murder Point ones are my favorite), so I’m wondering if this is commonplace or not.
F29, i was just diagnosed in April.
I have found it very hard for me to navigate this diagnosis for a multitude of reasons. First, I have been coming to terms that a lot of my very bad emotional experiences have branched from ADHD and I am grieving the younger me who didn’t know anything and thought she was insane. Second, I have been on Vyvanse for a while now and I feel like the ADHD symptoms still creep up on me and I get annoyed. Recently I almost forgot an appointment for the next day and was annoyed that I didn’t give myself enough time to mentally prepare.
The diagnosable symptoms have only shown since i turned 25. So part of me also feels like I show get back to my masked baselines but I can’t. Feeling a bit defeated but I want to get out of this mindset.
If anyone went through a similar situation, how did you come to terms with the diagnosis and when you were overwhelmed with managing the symptoms, how do you bounce back?