u/muslim_ummati

I was having an accountability partner from here on Reddit. Man messaged and started giving advices. Used to check up on if my control is going okay. He said he was a new muslim. Yesterday he sent me porn videos from reddit, I had my filter on so they didn't open. I asked him why he did that? he said sorry. Now, Today, He sent me 2 more videos and I have blocked him. WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE ARE HERE IN THIS SUBREDD? ITS A MUSLIM SPACE ! for God's sake we are here to fight Satan and our urges then FROM WHERE ARE THESE PEOPLE COMING UP IN THE NAME OF HELP? I'm feeling really sick.

If hands go down there, for just 5 seconds and you get hold of yourself early, is that considered a relapse?

If somebody has a long streak of over a month here, how easy is it to fight desires now?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh brothers and sisters.

My question is about masturbation. I'm 18 and my desires have peaked especially in this age. It didn't used to be this challenging before. And my addiction is not too old, just 3-4 months but I fear of it turning into years.

The thing I'm trying to avoid at all costs is watching dirty content and MO. though I haven't slipped in watching something bad since 3-4 days (which feels huge at this point) but I have a problem with masturbation. I am very clear that it's a sin and a haram act but sometimes when it's free time with nobody around and desire coming, M happens by me for a very few amount of time. I stop early. but it's still a sin. My question is how can I avoid even doing that? Because it increases the desire and will eventually lead me to watching filth someday astaghfirullah. I don't want that to happen.

Also I have ocd in Salah so advice me something other than it as even fardh prayers are a bit challenging.