u/nancy_popp

i’m 16F and i’ve known for years i don’t wanna have kids.

i love my aunt a lot and we talk almost every day, and i believe our bond is stronger than mine and my mom’s. yet everytime i say i don’t want kids i always hear „we’ll see when you’re older” , „i said the same thing at your age” etc, etc.

it’s not just her saying that but it’s the strongest example in my mind. i’m tired of people saying i will change my mind one day, completely disrespecting what i’m saying, my decisions and autonomy.

how hard it is to just nod and say „i understand”? for some reason they never say „you’ll change your mind” when someone wants to have kids

i have a party tomorrow and heard they gonna check us to make sure we don’t bring alcohol in. i thought about putting it in a perfume/deodorant bottle or a small bottle hid in a bra.

any other ideas or excuses when they say i can’t bring (for example) the perfume in??

there is (i suspect someone’s alt) account that has been viewing my and my friend’s stories for months. it doesn’t follow anyone, but it views every story what means it’s checking us out daily

there is a second account with almost identical name, created same time as the one viewing our stories and this account has 1 account they’re following

im craving to find out who that is or really have any hint on that

for context, im 16 and always had very painful periods to the point of crying, or sometimes almost fainting. i can stand most of the cramps but sometimes they are so strong i can’t sit straight or focus on anything. worst are day 1 and 2 of my period. today i took painkillers (ketonal 50mg) and after 2 hours since taking i was already feeling the cramps, and after ~4 hours it felt like i have not taken any painkillers today

i was wondering if i could have endo, but i always see women who have it (on social media) and they look like they are in way more pain than i am even though i’m doing same things they do on the videos (bending over, leaning on counters etc) i just tell myself my pain isn’t definitely as strong as theirs (i think i’m downplaying my pain??)

i will probably not be going to a doctor soon but i’m curious if it’s just a painful period or if possible endo diagnosis could help in me getting a hysterectomy in the future