Tomorrow is the D Day - The lessons i learned
44 male AR, getting an On-X valve
just three weeks back i was running carefree and then I found out that my valve needs to change. Took 3 surgen opinion and they all said the same thing. All my doc said, now there is no symptoms but all the reading just very near the line where i need to get a surgery, So rather than waiting for symptoms to start better get operated.
so in the beginning all i know was i need to get mech or bio valve. I tought the answer was easy. Oh boy then i understood its not an easy decision. Then i stumbled upon this reddit group and i learned a lot of things which i want to put it here for new people who will be joining our party which no one wish to join
- For majority of us, There is no perfect solution. All we have is a two option, where we have to choose which price to pay.
- Option 1 we have a mech option where you open up once(apart from rare cases) and then we have the management mode of life long blood thinners. This come with its own burden of weekly or monthly blood checks, stroke and bleeding risk etc
- 2nd , We have the bio option which gives us freedom from blood thinners but in future we have the uncertain timeline of valve degeneration, calcification etc and then maybe a TAVR (if your valve allows) and then another OHS depending upon your age and luck (some valves run for 5 years some for 10, some for 15 etc) . Always remember if someone got X years doesn't means you will get the same. you may get more or less no one knows as each body is a marvellous machine which have its own unique way to work . Also some unfortunate ones end up taking warfin for other needs which make them get bad side of both worlds
- We do have ROSS but you need to be the right candidate and with right high volume ROSS surgen and hospital, It have its own unique burden for turning 1 valve problem to 2 , and some unlucky ones needs another set of OHS for one or maybe both valves.
- One thing i learned is don't take all the data eyes closed. For eg Resila data is more around 65-60 year age group ( so a young person cant take that data eye closed) where as ON-X 1.5 INR push has its own risk as well. also some of the studies are done by the firm itself which have its own bias ( at the end they need to sell their product)
So there is no right answer. the only answer is what you want for yourself. Do you want a mech valve and manage the know risk or you want a bio and manage an unknown timeline. Find answer to this and you will get the clarity you need. Remember this is your burden to carry. So take your time, do your research and then commit.
In the begnining i felt we the unlucky ones who need to make such tough decision. In one of my hospital visit i meet a young chap who has brain tumor. He can chose between couple of years of life where he dont do anything but the chances of paralysis grows as well or a surgry with a good chance of recovery but with its own risk of paralysis or even death. So we are not that unlucky
Just want to end this with a statement from my wife.
" You are getting extra time in this world via a new valve and there will be a price to pay. There is no free lunches "