u/nooooobye

I grew up devoutly religious. Like believing wholly in God's plan. A little too much. I had aunts her were nuns and uncles who were priests. A very Catholic surrounding.

This way of thinking kept me in a poor relationship for far too long. I realize that I pushed my needs completely aside believing this is where God wanted me to be, etc. There were so many things that I felt were signs from God which kept me in the relationship. Overtime this relationship depressed me excessively.

Admittedly, I have begun to lose my faith now in my mid 30s.

What has helped you keep your faith? Anyone experience similar poor life experiences that made you lose faith overtime?

I'm about to graduate and I don't feel confident in my abilities. I also did school part time so it took awhile.

What are some jobs i can apply to that are not software engineering, or that are software engineering lite?

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I just want to know if anyone has a SO where the 2 of you talk about your feelings and the conversation actually feels like they care.

I have a friend who felt that her husband didn't actually want to get married. He just didn't want to give her up and she wanted to get married so he acquiesced. They dated for 6 years.

Another friend who the guy said he wanted to be together forever but never wanted to get married. They Only got married cuz she wanted to.

Old roommate whose now husband had a 7 year rule. They are now happily married but she was really thinking about breaking up at one point due not wanting to wait 7 years to get married.

A friend who honestly they do seem super in love as a couple. But after talking to her, she admitted that they may not have gotten married if they weren't from different countries. Like they needed to for immigration reasons. She wanted to get married regardless but he probably would not have gotten married if he didn't have to for the immigration purposes.

I could go on. I know that people who have problems are the loudest and the ones you hear about the most. But I tend to hear so much from friends about their bf being good EXCEPT he was/is hesitant on marriage.

Another friend who is newly engaged. He admittedly is once divorced. He didn't want to get married. He is only getting married again because she wants to.

Another friend who dated for 10 years and they are finally engaged.

Is there anyone where their husband was actually excited to get married???

I personally want a guy that is EXCITED to marry me. But it's so hard to tell. So many guys just tell you what you want to hear.

Those who are very independent, how big of a struggle is being in a relationship for you? And if it's a struggle, how do you reconcile with that struggle?

My struggle is the mental issue that my individuality is lessened. Like people will mention me as partner's spouse. I want to be known as me and not his spouse. Or people i thought were mutual friends always inviting him to things via text then telling him to include me (i now see these people as more of his friends.)

Are there any daycare that accept single day drop ins for kids?

I'm looking for a rec league where I sign up as an individual. The leagues I've found here seem like you sign up as a team. I want to meet people so using the rec league for that.

I'm open to any area near Syracuse, and really any type of intramural sport.

About 10 people and that includes kids. Something other than Tully's.

Basically a restaurant that has food kids will like and good for a group.

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I keep reading that we need to make sure baby is able to move.

Does laying in their back on the ground count as able to move around?

I do tummy time different times throughout the day. As we all know, they hate tummy time, so that lasts for a short time compared to an entire day.

I will leave him on a blanket and let him move around as he pleases. He usually wants up after about 20 minutes. But other than the laying on the ground, yes he is in a swing or carseat etc.