u/obviouswreck

Had this conversation with a buddy of mine who was completely shocked to hear I’ve never lied to a Dr. about my smoking habits. She was even more shocked to hear that I’ve never had a doctor tell me to stop smoking weed (I smoke everyday/multiple times a day).

Was curious to know what the general sentiment was around this. I guess my logic was, if I did have some health problem arise and smoking was a factor, I’d want to know/have it considered when making a medical decision. Idk though my friend said I essentially just fucked myself over insurance wise lmao 😭

I have a post with 650 views but 200 accounts reached ??? I just don’t see how that’s remotely possible, unless I’m misunderstanding how these metrics are calculated?

Honestly more curious about how this works than anything!

I feel so defeated. I’m in this endless loop in my head where I do something (forget, put off, misread) and it causes real consequences in my life that then by proxy cause problems for those around me. On one hand I feel so helpless to these actions, it feels like sometimes for the life of me I just CANT do what I need to do. On the other hand, it’s simply not an excuse and I understand that I need to be accountable for my own symptoms.

I guess I just don’t understand where to place my frustrations other than on myself. It feels like I have a disorder that just actively inconveniences myself and those around me. Like my brain is working against me and there’s nothing I can do about it other than follow behind it and try and put out the fires it causes. Or I guess it’s not “it”, it’s me —it’s fires that I cause. I know I can’t use my ADHD as an excuse or try and separate myself from it but it feels so draining and unfair to manage.

I also can’t get past the self-loathing. In my head, people in my life have a right to be frustrated with me and my actions. Anytime I inconvenience someone, I’ve already thought about it for 10x longer and have already been 100x meaner to myself about it in my head. I do apologize and right wrongs and take accountability but at the end of the day I feel like I’m the inconvenience.

All to say I would appreciate a change of perspective.

Hi there! I was hired somewhat recently for an entry-level position and was excitingly given a project to revamp our onboarding materials. This is a bit out of my scope, but because I am the person who most recently went through onboarding, it made sense as training is fresher in my mind. As of right now our training is mostly just a master google doc and a lot of 1:1’s with different team members. I definitely know where improvements need to be made but I wanted to ask this sub if they had any suggestions on platforms or resources that would be helpful as I take on this project. Also, if the context is helpful, we work on Salesforce and Zendesk —- Thank you!! (apologies if this is not the right sub to ask)