The hate against Shreya is manufactured, here's how:

It was unbelievable to me that people would be able to see THIS episode and think Shreya instigated those fights or deserved what happened.

Everyone said Reddit is the only place she is getting support. She got voted the MVP of this season by a HUGE margin on my Poll, in the main sub itself. People are upvoting and supporting her like crazy here.

infact, more people are liking her than hating her

I realised a few things about Instagram hate when I checked it out:

  1. These negative reels don't have a lot of likes. Or comments.

  2. Shreya's reels are also getting support. Not ALL posts about her get support. But the ratio seems to be divided between for and against her.

  3. Shreya's follower count has been stable throughout. And she is getting a decent amount of views too, 1M+

  4. The comments on Shreya's social media posts, if you check them out: 4 types of users; the negative PR, the actual negative comments, positive PR and actual positive comments. Actual positive comments are MANY, +ve PR is still very few, -ve PR (including the fans of certain people : checked and verified) is a LOT. There are some real negative comments too. But the most is real positive comments.

  5. Certain fan pages have full on agendas to comment, make reels etc negatively portraying Shreya and bombarding. We know how strong that, they get twitter trending hashtags through similar ways and IDK if that's easy or how many people that requires. So the fans take up a lot of the negative false PR, ofcourse without payment, just because they like a certain person.

  6. Then ofcourse the paid PR against her.

Based on all these points, it's really safe to say that a LOT of the hate is manufactured towards Shreya. And instead of people completely hating her, it would be more fair to say that there are mixed reactions. Some really love her, some are annoyed by her. It's not all of one thing, but she's good TV.

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u/okayish-in — 3 hours ago

Felt so bad for Shreya today

In yesterday's promo, I thought she was picking fights with everyone. But that's not true. She was being picked on. Continuously. People talked about her negatively, said things. Even Sufi, now that everyone is trying to include him, was SO mean to the one person who was actually there for him.

Sufi and Chamola were talking about her. She was hurt and called it out that you don't have to stop talking about me.

Then they lied. Even Pam joined in to lie and gaslight her. And then Sufi starts cursing her? Shreya actually spoke to almost everyone from a normal level of voice and yet people shouted and said things. Only then did she lose it and started shouting.

I am so disappointed. Watching that Pam thing especially, Shreya did nothing wrong. They were such jerks. They were laughing at her. And what reason did Sufi have to spew curses at Shreya? She literally was just trying to talk to him.

I want her to win. I seriously want her to win. She deserves this. She deserves to be told if there's voting, that audience are saving her

Like what are the other players even doing? That "Poo" acting was so cringe. I fast forwarded.

The only things I wanted to watch was Shreya related. Every one else is either boring or talking about her.

And Harshad, I was super excited for him, I do not like him at all. Anymore.

I am happy Chamola's lifeline is gone. She deserves this.


Edited to add : to all the people with the hateful comments, even you can't deny her presence. Look at y'all rushing in on every post to say something about her, write long texts about her. Keep going!

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u/okayish-in — 14 hours ago

My opinion about some people has changed

Chamola

I thought she was a sweet wholesome type. But what she did today,

  1. The whole Sufi and Varun thing. She told Varun tumhare jokes Jo samjhe uske saath karo? And sufi to not let it get it to him? Well, it's not just a remark. It's been his whole life. He is strong enough to be on the show despite people saying stuff. And he is not wrong to expect people inside to have decency. What EVEN.

  2. The At risk thing. It would be one thing to just accept being the villian, would have respected it. But then coming back and being all nice with them.. and eventually upset at them for not understanding?? Umm. Yeah.

  3. And did you notice how she told Pam "You're the only one I saved". That is MANIPULATION 101. I hope Pam saw through that.


And Harshad,

I am sure if he has wondered such a thing, he could have googled / read or asked anybody about it OUTSIDE OF TV? Idk. And then calling out Shreya for manipulating him into that narrative? Bro, a baby would have understood he was talking about himself.

And Honestly, saving someone who did the very thing that traumatised you, I am sure someone could do a study about it. Because why..and how?


Also, Shreya, I liked her, tomorrow's episode though, that seems like it might change my feelings? Unless there's any context. Because the little bit they showed of tomorrow was..cringe.

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u/okayish-in — 1 day ago

Why Nikhil Chinapa changed teams - my 2 cents

He noticed Ravi Kishan's team treated him as a mentor. He wanted to be the mentor.

Within Kushal's team, there were many "strong" voices, so to speak. Nikhil wanted to be the strongest voice, I feel. Afterall, people who are "masterminds" prefer their minds work while everyone listens. That wasn't that possible there.

He killed two birds with one stone. Became the "king" and got people who would listen to him. And this also affected Kushal Tanwar.

How, you ask? Kushal said he didn't want Ravi Kishan on his team. My assumption is he wants people who would listen, and Ravi Kishan wouldn't. Ravi would dominate Kushal or at least make him agreeable to some extent. It would kill his "Warrior" game. He would be a mere sheep.

And Honestly, I also think he noticed Kushal's way of speaking and decided to ditch that team because of that. Because Nikhil is too sophisticated for misogyny and also the "I'm a Man and I dominate this world" vibe Kushal brings. At least I hope.

And that's why I think he did what he did. Everything else he is doing rn, is simply appeasing the other teams until he doesn't have to anymore. What do you think?

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u/okayish-in — 3 days ago

[IRTR] Seeking Guests who are curious about understanding themselves

Name of Podcast: What's Your Pattern? {SFW} [Audio, No Video]


How many episodes have you published? 1 episode.(Introductory). Episode 1 drops next Friday. There's also an interview format for which I am seeking guests.


Link to Website Or Podcast Feed https://open.spotify.com/show/033AEdlECO7u1LnnztBsPo?si=lo8SQBHATiiz6ovK1gXoFw


[Genre] - Mental Health


Approx Length of Episodes - 50 minutes


Language : English

Call format : Audio

Looking for multiple guests. Interviews will be ANONYMOUS and will be done weekly. DM/Comment for more information!

If you've ever wondered, "Why am I like this?" then you're probably an ideal guest for this podcast, "What's Your Pattern?" You can join with a pseudonym, just bring your real life story.

I'm looking for curious, thoughtful people with interesting stories, relationship dynamics, habits, or recurring patterns they've been trying to understand.

This is not a therapy session. While I am a psychology professional, this podcast is simply about candid and insightful conversations.


u/okayish-in — 13 days ago

Jae-seok's B&B Rules vs Kian's Bizarre B&B

This may be an unpopular opinion, but I liked Kian's B&B more. Both the shows were great in their own way, but I found Kian's B&B to be more wholesome, emotionally intelligent and heartwarming.

Jae-seok and gang are entertaining. But I find some of the jokes to be needless and sometimes judgmental. Ye-eun has been in both of them, and I especially felt she seemed more open and happier in Kian's B&B. This may just be me, but I felt in Jae-Seok's b&b the guys got together more and that they have said somethings that may not have been needed, sometimes to Ye-eun. (By they, I mean jae-seok and Lee kwang-soo). This doesn't mean these guys are bad. Nope. I liked them individually and really enjoyed all of them hanging out together. But I cannot deny some comments were in bad taste.

But definitely felt Kian's B&B was more welcoming and understanding of different personalities, situations and like I said, more heartwarming. And Kian's stay was way more difficult, but Ye-eun seemed happier. In Jae-Seok's B&B I felt she was just sidelined. Not always. But at times.

Also, edited to add: I also liked how in Kian's B&B the guests treated Jin, Kian and Ye-Eun as normally we would see each other, not as celebrities. I feel like I was expecting the same vibe with this too but there was a lot of fan moments too (not that I am complaining hehe, makes sense honestly. But since I had watched Kian's B&B before, I guess that was the expectation that was set for me)

What do you guys think?

Edited to add: Can I just say I love how respectful all of you guys are despite some people disagreeing with me? I love this and I appreciate you. Thankyou. 🌻

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u/okayish-in — 29 days ago

The crash: my two cents on this case

Did she hit the car after planning for dayys? I don't think so. No.

She crossed that path multiple times because of whatever reasons, someone said people brought drugs from there, someone said it's a short cut. Or something.

I do not think she was getting a lay of the land.

What I do think though, is that she deserves the time she got. I do think it was intentionally and not an accident - done in a fit of rage (not planned).

Even if it wasn't (which IT IS, but even if we put that aside for a second), She deserves the jail time. She was so abusive to Dominic. So much so that poor guy started recording these things secretly.

She used to threaten him. His own house was also not safe. So she deserves this jailtime.

And I do believe she doesn't remember anything from the crash, and if it was a just impulsive rage where she decided to crash the car in that moment, she does not remember the why or how of that either. So possibly, if she doesn't know what she did, she genuinely believes she is innocent. (Edited to add : I stand corrected. Someone told me more in comments that change my view).

Not that that should make us give her any sympathy ^ (just something I observed)


I don't know how many of you have read the text conversations, I skimmed through it, some notable things from there:

  1. There are a few texts on there where Dominic is telling her she drives badly, and he is trying to say it in a way that doesn't hurt her.

  2. She used to undermine all his efforts

  3. Dominic tried in his ways for sure. But he was also a lil toxic in some situations , perhaps due to the relationship nature, everyone gets tired of bs. ( I DON'T mean he was toxic the kind this crazy girl was. I just mean, he had his own flaws like shutting down and sometimes that contributed to the fights. Even in his texts, there's some part where he said "we both toxic". I am not even saying he would have been like that in other relationships if he had any. Just that there were times in this one. But it was NOTHING compared to what this girl did.)

  4. He for sure was a drug dealer, many texts talking about make a sale.

  5. Mackenzie hated being at her home, sometimes her reason was my room is messy, sometimes had fight with mom, sometimes blah blah. She used to beg, and I mean BEG Dominic to let her stay. Didn't care about his boundaries. And also, would keep on bothering him about leaving his friends and coming to her.

She was toxic in many ways.

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u/okayish-in — 1 month ago

Suzanne was telling the truth. Here's why.

  1. Really hear her story. It's consistent throughout. Every bit matches with what happened next, and what was said.

  2. She described her environment well + gave even the smallest details in her story. She was not just saying stuff, she was remembering what happened and saying it. That's the sign someone is telling the truth, and this technique is used in actual investigations to check.

  3. Notice however many times she was asked, she said the same thing. She didn't change her story. She added more details, but they matched with what else she said.

Sometimes people don't have proof. But listen to what they are saying, how they are framing it. It gives it away. It was all the truth.

For people asking for proof, do you guys pull out the camera when your friend is telling you stuff? The best she could do was tell her not to do it. And I believe that it affected and triggered Suzanne because of her own childhood trauma. It's clear in her eyes.

And for these two cheaters, I simply do not even want to make a comment. I'll say this : ew.

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u/okayish-in — 1 month ago

Suzanne is telling the truth

In no world would Suzanne cook up an entire fake story with so many major things, it's not possible. She knew people would ask her for proof, it's a big thing to say, and she still did.

  1. She knew she would get majorly hated for it. This was very clear to her for sure

  2. She gained nothing by exposing any shit here

  3. Not one person said one thing to oppose what she said. Yaha to chote chote baaton pe aajate hai, itni badi baat pe defend nahi ho paaya?

  4. You can tell from Akansha's expression. She was exposed.

  5. The confidence with which Suzanne said it, she never once faltered despite people telling her to shut up, Karan continuously trying to change her words somehow, despite any and everything she stuck by her words.

  6. What she said took courage.

So yes. These are all signs and facts. That she is telling the truth.

Not to forget, barely anyone, if anyone at all, is saying Suzanne is lying. They are calling her a bad friend for speaking about Akansha's secret. So even they know it's the truth.

They are just mad that why her. Bro if not her, how would Ruru know?

Y'all should be happy a woman got to know the truth about the betrayal, rather than bashing the women who helped her. And bash karna hai, then bash the people who did this. The two self centred people ofcourse.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

Karan was trying so hard to get Suzanne to somehow say Yogesh didn't cheat

But instead the way Suzanne double triple confirmed made it even more solidified ki bus normal hanging out nahi, CHEAT kara hai.

Because he emphasized the word, but DID THEY CHEAT?

And she repeated with emphasis, "yess, they cheated!"

She said "cheated cheated"...whoever is a mature audience, you are understanding what that means right?

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

When Ruru asked Akansha if she has met Yogesh

That moment really changes with this context. That Akansha just rolled her eyes and left.

It's so so much more mean, knowing that Yogesh and Akansha actually talked. Genuinely mean and cruel.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

These clout chasers won't stop. Seriously. Kitna PR karwayenge, whoever it is. This is extremely unlikely sab jagah se ek saath AT THE SAME TIME different cheeze aana. Plus the amount of hate posts too.

Let's support her. Literally. She deserves it. Jab bhi usko love milta hai something like this happens.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

This guy is too eager to help someone who supposedly blackmailed him and got him out of MU 2025.

I mean, idk about anyone else, but I would not forgive such a thing. This doesn't even add up properly.

He says he didn't want to be in a relationship with her and refused...then when she got him kicked out of MU, THEN he decided she is the love of his life? LOL.

And casting couch bahot bada allegation hai. It would have come out way earlier. Jab Akansha/Anushka wali cheez horahi thi tab hi aajata ye. This is clearly untrue

And he is ready to come meet her at her beck and call just because she wanted a hug? And fir kuch mahine baad expose kar raha?

I mean February tak bhi to Moksha bahot chal raha tha. Tab isne nahi dekha tha kya? And please don't tell me sab nahi dekhte. If ye iska ex hai, toh why would he not? He would have watched the show very closely. And still HE DID NOT BRING THIS UP until now..

NOT when Mohit - Anushka were in full force. But now..when they are strangers. Ofcourse. Sure. So true man.

AnUsHkA gOt eXpOsEd, whooaaa guys.


Also a part of me thinks what if this is Negative PR is this chutput clout chaser's doing only..apni fielding set kar raha for fame by influencing people to think negatively about her..fir apni story layega, so he gets clout. DO NOT FALL FOR IT PEOPLE.

u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

Lol, har jagah se cheeze aana is very very unlikely, at the same time. She started getting love isliye ye horaha hai.

Baaki kitna hi din chal jayega negative PR.


Edited to add :

This is statistically impossible what is happening. Had posted a positive post about Anushka when she got eliminated.. that's less than a week ago. 100s of upvotes. And very less downvote ratio whatever that thing is. That's just one such post I am mentioning. Y'all know she was/is still getting love.

And suddenly Anushka related support posts and comments are getting downvoted immediately and quickly.. someone's working on this, this is not organic at all. Do not fall for it guys.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

This "expose thing" that girl posted is clearly untrue.

Anushka seems to be blind in love. (Exhibit A: Mohit). She would not blackmail someone whom she was dating, first of all.

And more importantly, why would the guy mention her dad's fight? Seems like narrative setting and more to prove that these things happened

I believe Anushka's story. That why did this not come out 4 months, why when she is being loved. It's because this is Negative PR towards her.

Also guys someone reached out to me that the Earth is flat. Clearly it is true. Earth is flat guys. Because someone reached out to me and told me and I will believe anyone who says anything to me.

I love that Anushka isn't even giving it the time of the day except for a simple story. You go girl.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago

  1. Eliminated Gauresh - idk if this was intentionally, but ruined the makers plan. Wo do dome se setting kar rahe ki Zalak chali jaaye so Akansha has someone to play with. Lol, that's gone now.

  2. They saved Asmita FOR mohit. I am pretty sure Anushka ne calculation kar li hogi ki Mohit bach jayega, and he would need a connection. She arranged it.

Kudos, Queen. Sab judge karte rehgaye, and bolte reh gaye koi logic nahi hai. While you played your game. Well done.

Jaate jaate bhi game hila diya usne. Aur log bolte reh gaye illogical kyuki wo soch hi nahi paaye ye next level. Some must have thought baad me when it actually happened.

Hoping she comes back. Ab kya hi dekhungi Splitsvilla me. Ab to I'm ready to read all spoilers too because kya hi bacha.

Also, was it just me or was her exit video with Mohit the most cinematic and sweetest ever? The way they just isolated every other sound and kept her voice when she is saying sweet things to Mohit. That was nice.

And log usko jo bhi bolte hai, ye hasti hi rehti hai. I love that. Suzanne itna bakwas kar rahi thi when Anushka was dumped, and she shut her up by saying "no hate for you, I am happy for you and all". Definition of killing with kindness.

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u/okayish-in — 2 months ago