u/orangefish888

my mom is ISTJ, my dad ENFP (yes i know, complete opposites), and i'm isfj.

all my life, my household has been in constant anger and fighting, screaming and yelling every day because of my mom's anger and micromanaging.

i know it is because she has the need to have everything under control, otherwise something might go wrong?? not even sure.

my question to this community is how on earth can i get her to stop flipping out everyday due to the organization of the household? it's a mix of ocd traits and how she refuses to admit she's wrong about are the most bs things ever.

i need ways to communicate in ways an istj will understand because i really don't understand her lack of empathy, what are the best ways that get you guys to comprehend and take in other point of views?

any advice is greatly appreciated

to the older isfj's in here, whats some advice you wish you could tell your past self:)

and why?

any Ne doms or high Ne users have any ideas?? i'm an isfj for reference

which mbti or specific mbti functions do you tend to admire the most and why??

i'm an isfj but i always catch myself fascinated by xNFx's empathy or just intuitives in general for their out of this world ideas.

personsally it takes me forever to think of unique ideas, and i always enjoy working with them because of their imaginations!