u/owaineeow

So I rarely rage at games, but I’ve noticed that I tend to get more upset in stadium. Upon doing some self analyzing, I’ve realized that in stadium, so much of it is based on your build. Like my aim sucks on Ashe so I just go dynamite build and win. And it’s frustrating to lose due to someone having an insane build that I struggled to counter

In regular comp it’s very obvious when I’m doing horrible, and that it’s because of my skill/positioning/aim. And I fully admit when I’m horrible and even apologize to my team 😭

I just hate that in stadium it feels a lot less in my control

Does anyone else feel similar

my bf and i have been dating for 2 years. he’s been going to the gym longer than we have been dating, and he’s consistently the biggest guy in the gym. i am very proud of him for how much progress he’s made; and he looks fantastic.

today he said that he wants to post gym pics on insta. this includes shirtless pics. i understand it’s to show his progress, but it made me feel uncomfortable and insecure that other girls could see him the way i do. it’s not even that i think he’ll cheat on me, i just don’t like other girls seeing what only i have seen for so long. i know i need to work on my insecurities, and i am with a therapist.

him and i were discussing it, and to put it into his perspective, i asked what if i posted a pic in a sports bra and shorts, if it was posted as gym progress? (i go to the gym too but am pretty conservative with how i dress). he then said that it’d make him uncomfortable because guys typically thirst over girls a lot more, even if they are fully clothed. he then looked on a bunch of gym guy’s insta accounts and pointed out how no girls thirst over them. it’s strictly for progress

i know i’m kind of at fault here for being so insecure; as i said i am working on it. but what he said kind of made me feel as if there’s double standards between us. i just want advice on the situation as a whole, and if it’s valid for me to feel uncomfy about him posting shirtless pics

Hi! I have been a partner for 6 months but have barely gotten bar time until around a month ago, so I’m kind of having to relearn everything. I memorized all the drinks, but one thing I’m struggling with is sequencing cafe/drive drinks. I work PM and therefore usually solo bar, but the few times we have rushes, I never know how to sequence bar/drive. I know we should prioritize drive, but in turn it keeps cafe/mobile waiting longer than they should be. Overall I’m kind of a mess with sequencing tbh so any advice would be appreciated!

In high school I was a straight A student. I am now a sophomore studying mechanical engineering, and things aren’t going so well. Last year I failed Calc 1. I retook it and passed. This semester, I’m failing more classes. I feel like such a burden.

I am thinking about taking less courses next semester, especially considering I have a job as well. I rather graduate later with better grades. I think that’s the best route for me.

My thing is, I see lots of people on here saying “engineering isn’t for everyone”. It’s made me feel very defeated. Engineering is all I’ve ever wanted to do, I’m incredibly passionate about it, and I wasn’t planning on ever giving up, no matter how many times I failed. But me failing so many classes along with seeing people say these things make me wonder if I’m even suited for it. I’m starting to have doubts about my capabilities.