u/penguin27772

I've posted here before about how my husband was emotionally cheating with someone else online, they never met in real life and this lasted for 5 years while he was dating me, got engaged and married 3 months ago), until the other woman found out and told him she was gonna tell me the truth and they both told me what was going on.

Last week the other woman sent me a text again and told me they continued talking when he was supposed to be in no contact, now I've been monitoring his phone and what sites he uses and he hasn't been in contact with her this week. Will this help? I don't want them to text eachother again, will he keep cheating? He doesn't cheat with girls in real life or someone else through text

I found out a month ago that my husband has been emotionally cheating with a girl he met online for 5 years, we've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years and 2 years now in person and we got married 3 months ago. I didn't see any signs or anything, he was always kind, attentive and nice until the day he confessed everything because the other woman found out and threatened him to tell me, at the end both did, he told me it was texting, calls, photos, video calls, normal and sexual but that he was manipulating her and hurted her, he also says that he never wanted her for a romantic relationship but he cares about her and finds her physically and sexually attractive.

It's been hard and I don't know if my delayed honeymoon will help us to get through this, is there any hope? Does it get better? We talked with people in our church community who went through the same and it was helpful, we are also seeing therapists (separately) and he seems regretful and honest so I'm choosing reconciliation and I'd like to hear experiences of people who survived infidelity

It's been a month since I discovered my husband was cheating through almost all of our relationship and marriage (for 5 years) and I found out because the other woman told him she was gonna contact me, she did and he also told me what was happening, since then my husband and I have been to therapy separately and it seems like things could work. Our delayed honeymoon is in 2 months, would it help us to move from this? Is there hope? Church community has been supportive of my decision of leaving or staying, I'm choosing reconciliation

Edit: they never met in real life, it as only, text, calls, pictures,... As the other woman doesn't live in our country

It's been a month since I discovered my husband was cheating through almost all of our relationships and marriage (for 5 years) and I found out because the other woman told me, since then my husband and I have been to therapy separately and it seems like things could work. Our delayed honeymoon is in 2 months, would it help us to move from this? Is there hope?

My husband said that he loves me but he emotionally cheated with a girl for 5 years, the never met in real life, she doesn't live in our country. But he says he cares for her and finds her attractive physically and sexually but he's not in love with her, yet he says that he loves me. Does anyone think this is possible?

My husband said that he loves me but he emotionally cheated with a girl for 5 years, the never met in real life, she doesn't live in our country. But he says he cares for her and finds her attractive physically and sexually but he's not in love with her, yet he says that he loves me. Does anyone think this is possible?