27 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for longterm relationship

Hello All,

I posted a week ago, but trying again.

Please read all of it, so it saves both our time.

About me:
- 27, 185cm, 85 kg, avg body
- A binge watcher, movie lover. Like long bike rides, beaches.
- Like playing strategy, RPG, idle management games.
- More introverted but open book.
- For compatibility - I guess i prefer side, but open to explore(not an experienced guy😁)
- I don’t drink, smoke, not a party person.

✅ what im looking for:
- someone who is looking for a long term relationship, life partner.
- Age: 25-35, masculine men.
- who has things figured out, able to take care of themselves.
- open to LDR, im okay to move if things go well 😊

❌Deal breakers: (no offence, just my preference)
- who drink, smoke, or do drugs
- super religious/ spiritual
- Planning for kids
- Who are looking for friendship, casual/short term.
- If you’re super busy in life, or disappear after a day or two in chat

I value honest and open communication. I prefer those who can spend some time to text even in their busy days. (time zone doesn’t matter)

If you’re interested kindly reach out with an intro of you, then lets swap pics and move forward(or not). Anyway thanks for reading guys, Have a good day !

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 9 hours ago

Need a good series on Netflix to binge watch

Hello!
Im an avid binge watcher, I prefer watching a limited series (12-16 episodes) in one sitting.. Or atleast a season in long series..

Recently watched avatar s2, la brea and katla.

Previously Crown, Ashes to crown(mandarin) , My royal nemesis (Korean)

I mostly like historical fantasy (J/K/C dramas), rom, supernatural, horror, sci-fi, time travel — lol i guess most of the genres..

Would like suggestions from fellow binge watchers !

I do watch a lot and sometimes forget the names lol, but will check the titles 😂

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 6 days ago

27 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for a life partner

Hello, Jay here.

I posted here a couple days back, posting back with few edits.

Might be more detailed, please reach out after reading it with an intro about you. Let’s save both our time😊

About me,
- 🏡 27, currently in Hyderabad, India.
- 🎮 An avid gamer, like RPG (similar to god of war), idle, management and strategy games.
- 📺 Binge watcher. (Mostly scifi, historical, fantasy(K, J, C dramas), rom-com, horror) recently watched LA BREA
- 🎥 Love watching movies, 🏍️long rides, ✈️travelling and 🏖️beaches
- 🙎🏻‍♂️185cm height, average body. ( Happy to share pics on dm)
- 😎I don’t drink, smoke, not a party person.
- 🫣Mostly an introvert, but open and honest.. (no filters )
- 👨🏻‍💻Career : Ex software dev, now doing freelance work while thinking to change career(try different things)
- 😑Not much family oriented, neither religious.
- 🛏️ If preference matters(I guess it does for most) -I kinda prefer side (but open to explore) — intimacy is important than intercourse.

✅ What Im looking for,
- ♥️LTR / Life partner(monogamous), not into casual, short term..
- Age: 25-40 Masculine men
- Financially settled / Independent
- Preferably those who share same interests - movies, travel, games (not necessarily though)
- Distance doesn’t matter, open to LDR initially and happy to move in with you or lets plan😉😉( Preferably to a gay friendly country- where its legal and recognised)

❌ Not into, (Sorry guys, its my preference)
- Who smoke, drink, do drugs
- Who lean towards feminine
- Religious, planning for kids
- If you’re looking for a pure top/bottom for compatibility
- Who are super busy in life and don’t have time to chat

I value commitment, time together, open and honest conversations. If you value the same and the above things interests you, you can DM.

If not thats fine everyone has different preference and goals, let’s respect that. Thanks for reading, Have a good day !

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 8 days ago
▲ 1 r/GayDatingLounge+1 crossposts

27 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for a life partner

Hi, Jay here.

A bit about myself,
- 27M, currently in Hyderabad, India.
- An avid gamer, used to play ps5 earlier now mostly COD mobile.
- Binge watcher. (Mostly scifi, historical, fantasy(K, J, C dramas), rom-com, horror)
- Love watching movies, long rides, travelling and beaches( not a good swimmer though 😅)
- side for compatibility(but open to explore preferences)
- 185cm height, Just average build, not a gym body😅

What Im looking for,
- LTR / Life partner, not into casual, short term..
- Preferably 23-40M, (MASC - same here)
- Who don’t 🚬🥂💉 ( I don’t too)
- Preferably someone who’s interested in movies, series, love travelling.
- Open to LDR initially, can move in… if you’re from gay friendly country 😊

I value commitment, time together, open and honest conversations. Thanks for reading! If you’re interested and looking for LTR, reach out !

Lets share pics in DM😁

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 11 days ago

27 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for long term partner

Hey there, Im 27 years old guy from India.

Looking for a long term partner(open to LDR, and move for the right one♥️).

A bit about me,

Im an avid gamer and binge watcher.

🎮🎮PS5 games(GOW-Series, hogwards legacy, Ghost of tsushima, etc), currently playing call of duty mobile.

🎬🍿A cinema lover, and netflix binge watcher. I love sci-fi, historical, fantasy, supernatural dramas, horror. Have watched dozens of Korean, Japanese add mandarin dramas (time travel and historical shows). GOT♥️

I love twilight, harry potter, fast and furious, pirates of Caribbean, final destination movie series. Marvel movies.

Im a 6’1 and average build guy, honest and an open book. I love long rides, travel, beaches.

🚭I don’t drink, smoke, or drugs.

👨🏻‍💻 Ex IT dev, now looking for a different career, or lets start something together 😊

👀 Im looking for,

✅23 - 40 year old man, honest and serious into building a long term relationship.

✅who is Settled(financial independent) and loves movies/series/games/travel.

❌Not into casuals, open relationships, and who smoke, drugs, or drink regularly.

Im open to LDR, but eventually move with you, or we can travel and settle somewhere ♥️♥️

If this interests you, leave a comment or DM. Happy to share pics !

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 1 month ago

Am I expecting too much, what would you suggest?

Hey Guys,
Im 27M, from India. I had given up on relationships and marriage a couple years ago. Been single, no dating for years just enjoyed being alone and just doing my work.

I quit my job a year back, took a break to figure my next career. I moved out of home, to a new city to live my life on my own. Initially when i moved used dating apps, but more are into casuals, short terms.. I didn’t like it much, so decided not to use the apps anymore.

Now Im looking for a partner with whom I can be myself, live together, travel and share interests.
Still not sure on marriage thing, as i dont like family attachment or having kids.

I dont drink/smoke, so expecting the same from my partner, im into masc, fair men.. when it comes to preference im side, but open to explore later on…

Still not working, I might get into freelancing or choose another career when it works out. Im not looking to live off someone lavishly.. but someone with whom I can love, travel and enjoy the life without worrying about finances.

I know most people thing its wrong to expect things for others when you don’t have anything to contribute, but apart from money I believe there are a other aspects in a relationship(not just physical)..

Am I expecting too much 🙃.. Should I just mind my own life and live the rest alone, or should I search for my forever one?

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u/phoenix_jay_ — 1 month ago