u/pinkmoss-mothman

Do you identify as trans? I don't and was curious about you others. I recently posted a less refined concept of this on the non-binary Reddit and it made me think. What do you think?

Imo gender identity is a cultural choice, regardless if you're cis or trans. Society imposes a gendered experience with the defaultism of cisness.

TLDR: I don't agree with me being "trans" (nor cis). I don't want to play in the gender game. I'm not "(not) conforming to my cis gender", I'm just me.

Imo the adjectives should be cis/trans/agender.

What do you think?

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My take on gender:

I don't believe gender is a built in quality of humans and I think it fails to identify a person authentically. I prefer to describe people based on their soul, personality, body shape (medically customised or not), yin-yang vibes, dreams, behaviour etc.

Gender means nothing to me, except for historical stuff.

I think gender is a cultural "choice', and I can see no reason for its existence except for the patriarchy creating a privileged group (to dismantle), ("except for medical stuff" but that's sex not gender).

Ofc other people care about it, and i respect that and their identities (we live in a society after all and it's their choice)

I was reading your recent deleted post but I didn't have enough time while studying. It was so interesting. Would you consider reposting/chatting about it with me?

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Hi I'm just approaching this hobby. What dolls would you recommend? I'm looking for something no smaller than a regular Barbie and no bigger than a Disney animators 39cm, some model that ideally, has easy to find extra clothes, looks cute enough, and well, durable lol.

What models/brands have you fallen in love with?

I'm planning to get a Disney animators but I'm curious about your experienced opinions

Edit: I'm looking for a child like/cute adult doll, nothing too serious or matronly

Happy birthday y'all!

I'd like to deepen a bond with my friend but i feel there's a mutual wall and can't ask them about it because I want no drama... Maybe you'd be interested in helping clear up my thoughts? Sorry to bother

I'm a Libra sun, Scorpio rising, Gemini moon. Whenever we talk about our 'traumas' and have something to do it goes naturally and smoothly, but often then we abruptly halt the mood when we appreciate something about the other, even just their art, and it stifles everything and I feel like there's this wall between us. I also low key feel chemistry but I DON'T want to do anything about it (I'm not single and they know it), regardless whether it's mutual or not. (To be honest and fair I think that's the issue but I'm not going to ask them that since it's a dead end and it would become just even more awkward)

We bonded over nature/art/philosophy/cozy hangouts and I'd really like to settle the mood either deeper or stable as it is...

Anyone with similar experiences?

Thank you for your time