u/pinkyglosss

My boyfriend has a really low self esteem, mainly because he is unlucky and started to believe that he is not good enough or not worthy of anything (and honestly, I kind of noticed he is unlucky and I don't know why there is such a bad karma, he is so sweet and has such a good heart, he even buys food for stray animals, gets in the car and drives to find animals and feed them. And not just animals, also people)

The thing is that it affects him in his profesional life. He has been trying and trying to find a job but everybody rejects him and he is completely capable for those positions and now his self esteem is on the bottom of the ocean and I don't know how can I help him except encouraging him. Also, he has another interview in 3 days. So I would like a book or something that could help even a little bit.

Is there any book that changed your perspective?

People who wore glasses their whole life, how did others perceive you after swithing to contacts or had a laser eye treatment?

Because personally I am so condused. I used to get much more compliments when I wear my glasses as if a huge piece of metal makes me more beautiful. Someone told my bf that he has 2 girlfriends.

Is it in my head that I am not used to it and analyse everything people say? I am having such a big identity crisis. Did you go through something similar?

I never met someone who looks better with glasses and I hope I am not the only ugly one without glasses.

People who wore glasses their whole life, how did others perceive you after swithing to contacts or had a laser eye treatment?

Because personally I am so condused. I used to get much more compliments when I wear my glasses as if a huge piece of metal makes me more beautiful. Someone told my bf that he has 2 girlfriends.

Is it in my head that I am not used to it and analyse everything people say? I am having such a big identity crisis. Did you go through something similar?

I never met someone who looks better with glasses and I hope I am not the only ugly one without glasses.

I never knew my skin doesn't actually like niacinamide until recently. My skin was good, than bad and then good again but I never understood why and I was sick of always trying new things because my skin was refusing to cooperate for good. And I kept trying New things. So I started to look at the products that work on me and the ones that don't and all had niacinamide. Even when the ingredient wasn't listed between the main ingredients, but at the bottom. And then I remembered the only time I had almost perfect skin (at least for me) was when my routine didn't have any niacinamide in it. And let me tell you, my skin changed for the better since giving up on niacinamide or vitamin b3, as they say.

Have you ever tried an ingredient that everybody is obsessed with, but it actually makes your skin worse?