mom asked me "why do you want to kill yourself except not being on hrt" (i am on diy, she doesn know). It implies she knows im a train, but still misgender me when i say give her scientific study on suicide risk. TCD?
Feel like the pronoun market is over saturated. Bare with me, because ill be trying to articulate an "ick"
It has sort of put this notion into the average cis person's mind that pronouns are just "labels" rather than concrete identity markers.
What?
Basically, people use language like "they/she/he identify as enby,etc."
A cis person doesn't say they identify as their agab, its assumed, just like with trans people.
However , with trans people, due to the overuse of this language, people associate trans people with their agab and their "preferred gender".
I dont need to know what agab a enby is, because isnt a coore tenant of enby identity to not have a associable gender? (thus nonbinary?)
To me the entire use of "identify" and "preferred gender" do more harm to trans people than good, because cis and (some) trans people will now always have that notion in mind of "oh A was a man" or "oh A was a woman" or "oh A is actually a woman/man, but they identify as non binary"
It feels transphobic, or icky, to have a "preferred gender", when most of us are that gender, we dont want to be that gender (though we want to look like that gender) but we are.
I dont need to know that this post op passing trans person is trans, i dont need to disclose im trans, in fact im just cis actually.
Trans people dont need to be othered, just say like "yeah A is actually a girl"(becouse she is)
do yall get what im saying O.o
saw a pic of myself pre hrt, that looks like the younger version of what one of my male classmates looks like, still incredibly masc tho. Very glad. many such cases
it feels like theres alot of reppers and like luckshits. I honestly just wanted to see whats going on over there (havent looked in a while). it is very wholesome though, thought ?
hi long is the ppl time to take to prepare orders? when should i contact support
cissoid queer places are too neuro divergent for me, and its the only big place where tranners are "accepted", outside of horny trans group spaces (prepare to have your identity misrepresented and swept under the rug!).
cis queers dont understand passing and have the same reservations to passing as do any other cissoid, though they have the propensity to "change" and be "tolerant" because "your just like them!". (will treat u differently if you dont pass!/ r a hon )
Idk its really niche gripe, i get triggered easily by ciz queers im out to saying stuff to me like im my agab (even thougm im out to them)
Sometimes feels like i would be better not coming out to cis people at all, until i "pass".
Their all cis at the end of the day. Anyone feel the same? idk sometimes i say im homophobic trans person (wow so edgy!!)
note: alot of this is area specific, i exist in a conservative area, alot of the queers probably see transphobic shit all the time and internalise it against un (thats fun!)