u/prettyangelkitty

Havent sold them yet but I’m sure a delusional arianator will jump to the chance of 100 section seats.

It makes me so sad though like a feeling similar to grief. I guess it is grief. I wanted to see Ariana. Not whoever tf this is. She looks so bad guys and I’ve been reading up on how eerie her actual concert is. I was tryna to cry happy tears not from worry that she’s gonna die at any moment!!
Like why is she doing this to yourself just why?

Her concert pictures genuinely make me want to cry. As much as her behavior angers me, as an ex fan I’ve only grown to care for her as her music and voice were once so healing to me. Sometimes they still are. I’m hoping so so so bad she gets better. And I’m so enraged at her team and family those greedy evil pigs exploiting her at this point when she severely needs a wake up call and admit herself to the hospital or some kind of rehab. I am just done.

Idk wtf this is but its pissing me off. I came on here as an ex fan to voice how I’ve no longer identified as a fan due to her problematic behavior which I have this subreddit to thank. How are takes from ex fans not welcomed? Is this just a subreddit for pure haters who have never been fans of her? Wouldn’t it be more valuable for someone who once admired an artist now understands how toxic they’ve become? Is it because I said I felt sorry for her and because I hope she gets better? Do all of you just wish Ariana death? Because that’s fucking inhumane and you’re part of the problem. We’re supposed help each other

Btw I posted this on r/raisedbynarcissists but I felt victims from enmeshed families may be able to relate to this more:

Blood is thicker than water is a line my narcissistic (but at the same time enabling) mother would always say to me to prove how family is the most important thing in the world. Well, mother, if family was so important to you, you wouldn’t have treated me like shit all of my life, and I wouldn’t be so happy to move away and live my own life away from all of her toxicity. I rant about this because I just moved 3 hours away with my boyfriend and 2 cats after graduating college and I’m so ready to live my own life, only that my mother has planned a 3 week vacation and a surprise 4 day vacation to meet my new cousin (?????!!!!) in the middle of July.

To give context, both of my parents are filipino and immigrated to the States in their 20s for nursing jobs. Filipinos have a culture similar to others where family is the number one priority. To the point where I am forced to an almost full week of vacation just to meet a baby who will have no idea who I am until about maybe 5 years down the road.

This just pisses me tf off and I’m really trying not to come off as privileged because a 3 week vacation I know sounds amazing, but it completely turns into a disaster when you’re traveling with literally your least favorite people of all time and who you consider the worst people in the world. The only thing I ever enjoy is hanging out with my little sister but other than that hell no. What seems like a fun idea of sightseeing and touring quickly becomes a nightmare when it’s with my parents. They treat me like shit the entire time, all of their toxic traits seem to become amplified when they travel, they completely step over my boundaries, which my mother already did in the first place forcing me to go on vacation without even asking me!

It’s just the fact she doesn’t even ask me, she just assumes it’ll be okay because it’s “family”! I’M SICK OF IT! It’s like I finally get the chance to be free and I’m still bound to family obligations. I’m just done. I know I can also just not go but thousands of dollars have already been spent for me. I’m anticipating that I force myself to go but grey rock method the entire time, or start treating them terribly and become visibly unhappy to ruin the mood of the vacation as they’ve done for me so many times.

How is this family? Truly how is this family? How can anyone feel at home when all of your feelings are dismissed to keep up an image, a tradition, that values only external validation rather than truly considering how your own child feels? Doesn’t make any sense to me.

Blood is thicker than water is a line my narcissistic (but at the same time enabling) mother would always say to me to prove how family is the most important thing in the world. Well, mother, if family was so important to you, you wouldn’t have treated me like shit all of my life, and I wouldn’t be so happy to move away and live my own life away from all of her toxicity. I rant about this because I just moved 3 hours away with my boyfriend and 2 cats after graduating college and I’m so ready to live my own life, only that my mother has planned a 3 week vacation and a surprise 4 day vacation to meet my new cousin (?????!!!!) in the middle of July.

To give context, both of my parents are filipino and immigrated to the States in their 20s for nursing jobs. Filipinos have a culture similar to others where family is the number one priority. To the point where I am forced to an almost full week of vacation just to meet a baby who will have no idea who I am until about maybe 5 years down the road.

This just pisses me tf off and I’m really trying not to come off as privileged because a 3 week vacation I know sounds amazing, but it completely turns into a disaster when you’re traveling with literally your least favorite people of all time and who you consider the worst people in the world. The only thing I ever enjoy is hanging out with my little sister but other than that hell no. What seems like a fun idea of sightseeing and touring quickly becomes a nightmare when it’s with my parents. They treat me like shit the entire time, all of their toxic traits seem to become amplified when they travel, they completely step over my boundaries, which my mother already did in the first place forcing me to go on vacation without even asking me!

It’s just the fact she doesn’t even ask me, she just assumes it’ll be okay because it’s “family”! I’M SICK OF IT! It’s like I finally get the chance to be free and I’m still bound to family obligations. I’m just done. I know I can also just not go but thousands of dollars have already been spent for me. I’m anticipating that I force myself to go but grey rock method the entire time, or start treating them terribly and become visibly unhappy to ruin the mood of the vacation as they’ve done for me so many times.

How is this family? Truly how is this family? How can anyone feel at home when all of your feelings are dismissed to keep up an image, a tradition, that values only external validation rather than truly considering how your own child feels? Doesn’t make any sense to me.