I'm a hafu myself and interested in growing the community. With the waisian movement, I think the sub should be a place for all half's, not just white asian. I've modded r/bodybuilding before and run several forums and fb groups.
I feel like to me, it's the "stack" or lack thereof. I'm used to design patterns being very cut and dry and I find myself lost in how to make something. I wound up redoing my whole "back end" because my game is multiplayer and it turns out, it's easier to just make a multiplayer game that can be limited to 1 user vs a multiplayer code path and a single player code path.
What did you guys learn?