Met a guy on Hinge but he’s evading my questions..
I (23F) met a guy (26M) on Hinge. We didn’t talk much on the app since he said he doesn’t use it so he asked for my number to text me. His profile said he was looking for something genuine and that he was adventurous. I am also adventurous and am looking for something real which is why I swiped right. I thought the conversation was going well but when I asked him if he wanted to do a fun activity together, he ignored it and asked where I lived.
I let it slide because I initially didn’t think it was a big deal. But when I tried flirting with him to see what the vibe was, he also avoided my question of “how would you feel if I were implying something?” After he ignored my question again, I didn’t bother texting him afterwards and he didn’t reach out again either. Did I come on too strong or ask him out too early? I don’t have a lot of dating experience so idk if this is normal but I was trying to see him as soon as possible. Usually when you drag out these things over text, the connection fizzles out. Clearly he wasn’t into me and it would’ve been nice if he had been upfront about it when I directly asked him how he felt. If I said something off-putting, I’d like to know so I can be better in the future.