u/purplebee26

Why say unnecessary hurtful things? Like actually go out of your way to make someone feel bad?

What I'm seeing is mob behavior and bullying on some subreddits.

Because of a lot of guys are dating hot or nothing.

Sorry, I know its a stupid question.

I'm a bit traumatized by my last rejection from a dating app where a guy said he wasn't attracted but he said it in a non direct way.

I understand everyone has preferences but the worst part is that I didn't pick up on what he was saying right away. I guess I'm not always the best at social cues and I'm inexperienced with men. He continued talking to me so I thought it was interest and he basically tricked me by telling me non sense. I put in effort in talking to him. He kept lying and saying we could go on a date somewhere.

Basically taking advantage of my attention and probably revelling in it. I was making a fool of myself thinking he liked me. Why do men do this? It affected me mentally. My attention was genuine and he was just playing games with me, getting an ego boost. Likely pursuing the girls he really wanted.

I never thought myself a complete negative in attractiveness until dating apps. I would start a conversation and get ignored most of the time. But to judge someone off the bat on a couple photos is wild.

I'm a bit traumatized by my last rejection from a dating app where a guy said he wasn't attracted but he said it in a non direct way.

I understand everyone has preferences but the worst part is that I didn't pick up on what he was saying right away. I guess I'm not always the best at social cues and I'm inexperienced with men. He continued talking to me so I thought it was interest and he basically tricked me by telling me non sense. I put in effort in talking to him. He kept lying and saying we could go on a date somewhere.

Basically taking advantage of my attention and probably revelling in it. I was making a fool of myself thinking he liked me. Why do men do this? It affected me mentally. My attention was genuine and he was just playing games with me, getting an ego boost. Likely pursuing the girls he really wanted.

I never thought myself a complete negative in attractiveness until dating apps. I would start a conversation and get ignored most of the time. But to judge someone off the bat on a couple photos is wild.

I'm a (f) and no I'm not overweight.

How I got that score you ask? I calculated everything based on my proportions, age and everything else. I'm not in my 20s so that already sets me at a disadvantage.