u/queen_ofbingereading

My friends have told me alot about being calm, unbothered, and they even think im emotionless/heartless just because I barely have any reaction towards anything. They called me stoic and I asked them if it's a bad thing, they asked me how could I contain it. For me it's normal and I'm used to it icl i dont know why people are intrigued. It feels unnecessary to react to anything I don't find interesting.

Alot have also told me, im really quiet and my voice is fragile lol.

Is this bad?

i wanna be taller:(

does knowing me more lead to loving me less

why scroll? what will you gain from scrolling? nothing exactly, you will forget the media you have consumed in the next hour.

Try new hobbies too. And as well as mastering/improving such as learning an instrument, a skill, and etc,.

Learn something new. Something that interests you, things you dont know and youre curious about, and seek useful knowledge.

Reading, fiction and non-fiction book, educational books aswell, if you can barely focus i recommend you to listen to an audiobook whilst reading.

Watching a documentary, a podcast, films, educational videos (specifically from Tedtalk and Stanford) etc,. It could be anything that is to your liking.

Discovering something new. it could be anything aswell. (music/films/facts/history/other topics, etc,.)

and most of all, genuine human interaction. The digital age is making our brains unrehabilitated, it makes us unable to think precisely constantly avoiding boredom that leads to doomscrolling, which also leads us to lack from creativity. making our brains overstimulated and overconsuming media, which again makes our brains unrehabilitated. Give yourself some peace and space, heal your brain.

why scroll? what will you gain from scrolling? nothing exactly, you will forget the media you have consumed in the next hour.

Try new hobbies too. And as well as mastering/improving such as learning an instrument, a skill, and etc,.

Learn something new. Something that interests you, things you dont know and youre curious about, and seek useful knowledge.

Reading, fiction and non-fiction book, educational books aswell, if you can barely focus i recommend you to listen to an audiobook whilst reading.

Watching a documentary, a podcast, films, educational videos (specifically from Tedtalk and Stanford) etc,. It could be anything that is to your liking.

Discovering something new. it could be anything aswell. (music/films/facts/history/other topics, etc,.)

and most of all, genuine human interaction. The digital age is making our brains unrehabilitated, it makes us unable to think precisely constantly avoiding boredom that leads to doomscrolling, which also leads us to lack from creativity. making our brains overstimulated and overconsuming media, which again makes our brains unrehabilitated. Give yourself some peace and space, heal your brain.

And most of all, take care of yourself. no one else will. you only live once too.

What's the point of scrolling for you? And which app? You merely scroll to be entertained? To kill time? To be updated? trends, popular stuff etc,.? And why?do you have fomo?

Stop consuming unnecessary media (like scrolling, going along with the algorithm in your feed) Instead, solely seek for the particular content youre looking for. Stop scrolling. It makes your brain unrehabilitated. Go ahead and be bored, clear your mind and seek peace, it will make your life better. You will realize alot aswell, working your body out is also good, we need to move our body instead of bed-rotting, our brain thinks were ill/sick, which halts our productiveness, this will also lead to a better health holistically. i cant say entirely, but life will be better for you.

why involve in relationships when you can be self contained