u/queenofdunkindonuts

When Olivia first debuted, even before SOUR, she seemed very thrilled to receive any attention from people who liked her music or recognized her. Even during the SOUR era, if you watch her interacting with the crowd, she’s very patient and nice, takes her time to speak with fans, take pictures, sign items, even while we were in a pandemic. She also seemed super thrilled with making it on the billboard hot 100 at all. I just think she had a lot more humility.

Now she is very selective when interacting with fans, often rejecting pictures or autographs, even in situations when most other artists would gladly provide those or she would during the sour era. She doesn’t seem to appreciate whatsoever for her fans streaming her songs and selling out venues. I don’t really even see her acknowledging the amount of times, energy, and money her fans put into her, especially considering the fact that we aren’t millionaires.

What made me stop being a fan was this change. She doesn’t seem to appreciate any fans or the amount of money and time we’ve put into her. It’s almost as if she finds us to be annoying for even liking her or knowing her and wanting to take a picture with her or her autograph.

I am a 24F and currently gained about 25-30lbs ever since I started my first big girl job and started ice skating 4-5 times a week over the past 6-8 months. What’s even more frustrating is that I workout literally 2 hours 5-6 days a week and I’m the heaviest I’ve been.
Because I am freaking tired and hungry all of the time, I have unfortunately just been eating a lot more treats and junk and eating out more. I hate cooking with a burning passion but I have no idea how to not be so hungry or craving food so much. I’m trying to increase my protein intake. But I’m just so disappointed in myself and I barely body for not getting smaller.

So last week I (24F) went on a work trip 1200 miles away from my hometown and I was extremely stressed out. I also flew on an airplane for the first time in 9 years to a place I’d never been to before. My period came a little bit early (24 day cycle opposed to my usual 27-29 day cycle) which has happened to me before in periods of unusual stress or big changes. Despite coming a little bit early, my period was typical and lasted 6 days.

However, this morning, I woke up with period blood and I’ve been bleeding as if I started my period again. I’m somewhat confused and unsure what this means. I had an incident like this which was a lot more painful in June of 2025, which prompted me to schedule a gynecologist appointment where she just dismissed this as “ovulation or a cyst rupturing” after she preformed all of the physical exams on me. I have a suspicion a cyst ruptured because I never bleed in between periods.

I notice that after stressful changes, such as traveling or moving into college when I was younger, my period will sometimes start. I distinctly remember in college having a very short cycle, in which it actually synced with my roommate’s, as she just started hers. When my dad passed away, I got my period super early as well.

Has anyone else had this issue before? And if so, what happened/did you get medical attention immediately?

At the moment, I am not inclined to get immediate/urgent medical attention because this just feels like day 1 of a typical period. I will follow-up with my gyno but if the bleeding lasts longer than my typical period, is heavier, or I am in excruciating pain, I will seek medical attention. But if this screams medical emergency, let me know, and I’ll consider getting care asap!!

Also, I will keep this post updated for my fellow girlies experiencing this. I found a post on this subreddit from a couple years ago and there are a lot of comments asking for a follow up. At the moment, I’m pretty nervous because I’m not sure what this is or how long the bleeding will last. Really hoping and praying that this isn’t anything terrible and the bleeding isn’t anything more than a typical period.