u/racha3l00

Hello. My SP has been silent for a month.

Prior to this, the silent moments (a couple days, max was 2 X weeks) I have affirmed he is mine. However, it has happened too many times where he hasn't communicated, thus resulting in not speaking to me for a month. I have now told him I don't want to see him again because of how he has handled this.

HOWEVER, I want him. I want him to want me.

May I have your tips on how to get him to chase me? I have always been the chaser, but I would like very specific advice on how to flip this.

Things like specifically worded affirmations to use and what I can do to get movement would be great. Plus any niche tips and tricks please that have worked for you.

I have a gut feeling that he likes me and wants me and I genuinely believe he has pulled away because of his feelings towards me, I just now need him to put the effort in.

Hello, I know one of the steps in manifestation is to be ok with the outcome not happening. My question is, how do you end up not manifesting that thing to not happen?

If you say "I don't need this to happen" or "if it doesn't happen, that's okay", is that you not in turn willing it to not happen? Because Welp you clearly aren't bothered about it or don't want it badly enough.

I am learning and am trying to work on manifesting but now I'm trying to be ok with what I have manifested not happening but I'm concerned of back peddling.

Hello,

I am doing a lot of self work, affirmations, scripting, manifesting and I wanted to know how you trust your manifestations will come true when you have mental health issues like anxiety?

Communication with my SP has really dropped, reasons why I don't know. He says he isn't trying to hint and is just busy with work, which I understand. I know deep down he wants me, but how do you stop the anxiety from taking over?

I listen to Subliminals and affirmations to help quieten the dark inner voice, but I have just spent an hour sobbing because of all the anxious "what if" questions about the prospect of being ghosted, him not wanting me or him talking to other people.

When anxiety is a medical condition that can't just be solved easily, how do you manage to get your manifestations to come through still?

I am really struggling with detachment. I have done a few techniques to manifest my SP and I believe the next step in my manifestation process is to detach but fuck, I am struggling.

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I have really focused on myself, getting back into the gym, absorbing myself into work, starting new projects, being present and trying my best not to check for external confirmations (although I do fail at this).

In a quiet moment, I will think about him. I will wonder if it has worked yet, if he is thinking of me or what he is doing. I will think about us being together, what I will say or what he will say to me.

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I am worried about doing any more projects or distractions as I genuinely think I'll burn out, but I am struggling to detach myself and my thoughts from the manifestations that are at work, and trusting it will work out the way I want it to.

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Any advice would be greatly appreciated x

How do you stop the feeling of doubt when something doesn't happen?

For example, last night I wanted my SP to call me. So, I truly believed he was going to call me. I went to the gym, came home and got ready for bed, all with excitement and planning for him to call. But then he didn't? I obviously had to go to sleep, but I was so deflated that it didn't happen.

I am now worried that I am going to be following a cycle of getting my hopes up, for it not to happen? But I want it to happen. So any help on how to not take this let down as a reason to stop trying.