u/radiopartyroadie

▲ 0 r/hotels

Maintenance worker appeared outside my window without notice

I’m trying to gauge whether this is normal and if I should be uncomfortable about it. I’m staying at a hotel with my husband. At 1 PM this afternoon I was alone in the room and decided to change my pants. I was standing in the main open area of the hotel room and the curtains were about half open. I know this is a stupid place to change my pants, but since I’m on the second floor and I was standing at a considerable distance from the window, I thought it was unlikely that anyone would be able to see me. About two seconds after I had put the new pair of pants on, I saw a man standing on the roof outside my window, removing the screen. He made eye contact with me and then walked away.

I immediately felt really uncomfortable and annoyed that the hotel didn’t give me any heads up that this would be happening so that I could have closed the curtains or just changed in the bathroom. I did end up closing the curtains and he came back and removed the other window screen and then put them both back on. I don’t expect him to show up again, but I won’t open the curtains again since I now know that he will be directly outside the window able to see everything inside the room. Am I correct that the hotel should have notified me of the maintenance being done today or is this just something that you have to expect?

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u/radiopartyroadie — 7 hours ago
▲ 273 r/detrans

Ftmtf - Two years, 3 months detransitioned and I feel like myself again. There’s hope ❤️

From left to right:

  1. Before my transition and less than a month after starting my detransition
  2. Three months off testosterone and four months off
  3. Ten months off testosterone and 14 months off
  4. Two years off testosterone and two years, three months off (current)
  5. Two years, three months off (current)

I was on testosterone for three years from the age of 24-27. I’m 29 now :)

I had a double mastectomy in 2021, got expanders for breast reconstruction one year into my detransition (April 2025), and got permanent implants in December of 2025. I also started hormonal birth control pills at the beginning of my detransition which helped clear out the testosterone.

I noticed facial changes and body fat redistribution at around three months in and it progressed gradually. Things changed that I didn’t know even could, like body hair thickness, the depth of my voice, my facial features, etc. I also noticed my boobs started to get fuller before I started my reconstruction (I have barely any breast tissue left so it was surprising!) Now I’m in a place where I feel really feminine again and comfortable in my body. I feel a lot more confident and beautiful now and am optimistic that I’ll continue to.

u/radiopartyroadie — 2 months ago

I was trying to get back with my ex but he said he won't f*ck me because he's married now so I keyed his car. Can you believe the nerve of MEN??

I mean hello we've only been broken up 5 years and he never returns my calls so what was I supposed to do, try to meet someone single?

u/radiopartyroadie — 3 months ago