Looking for advice on dating multiple people and respecting everyone's feelings
I (27M, NYC) am very inexperienced at dating around. Recently, I have been on 3 dates with a Hinge match (25F), and have had a lovely time on each. I don't particularly want to stop seeing her because spending time together is a lot of fun, but at the same time I don't really think about her when we're not spending time together, and I'm a little unsure of the long term viability, though I feel it's early to make a judgement like that. We have another date scheduled for next week, more on that later.
Then this week, I went on a date with another Hinge match (29F), and felt a very strong connection. We had a really good time together, even closed down a bar since we were having such a good time. We both want to see each other again, but the only night we could potentially see each other next week is the same night as my date with the first Hinge match.
I feel pretty strongly that I want to continue to ride the momentum of this second match, but I feel terrible cancelling a date on one woman because I prefer another. I've been on a few other first dates in the meantime too, but those haven't gone anywhere yet.
I have never seen multiple people at once, so what do I do here? Do I politely end things with the first match? If I am politely ending things, then what is the right thing to say to someone you've only been on 3 dates with? Or do I just make up an excuse and try to reschedule?
For context, I do feel like the first match likes me, but I have noticed that her profile has been continually updated, so I assume I'm also not the only person she is seeing.
I don't want to be an asshole whatsoever but also want to keep following things that feel good. Help!