u/rarity_klarity

Hey yall imma make this quick!! Please disclose if you have an STD EVERYTIME!!! I unfortunately am HSV2 positive( I have genital herpes) and I found out about two years ago while pregnant and I've been disclosing to ppl I have sex with!! But I was in a support group where a lot of people said they've had it for years and don't disclose! They kicked me out because I didn't support their decision to not disclose and I told them people they were criminals and rapist for not disclosing!! Im not gonna give details but there's a case in Louisiana where a man named Mykel cook who was held on a 250,000 bond for spreading HIV around and only one woman had the courage to speak up! Theres never a reason to not disclose idm how drunk or high you are people have that forever and it's unfair to make a serious decision like that for someone. Please be safe yall! And if you HAVE SOMETHING SAY SOMETHING!

Quick update: I just wanna say thank yall for understanding what I'm sayin !! The chat did not pass the vibe check lmao. Honesty and disclosure are so important!! If you can't disclose u dont need to date or have sex! If they don't have all the information to make an informed decision it's at the very least sexual assault depending on where you live. And that is a crime

This is kind of a crossover question but for people who have watched/read the handmaid tales and desperate housewives do we think Bree would've been a Serena joy all for Gilead type or do you think she would've resisted? I know shes all serve your husband republican and gun blazing I love America. But she has a more say as I do not as I do type of thing goin for herself. Would she have been apart of mayday? Or would she have a handmaid? If not Bree then who would you put your money on?

Ok theres no flair for religious stuff but Ive decided to fast and I forgot my cycle was supposed to start. Im actually struggling so bad lol. Partly because I didn't give myself a clear plan on what fast im doing but it was just on my heart and mind to try and im kinda disappointed in myself. It was supposed to start yesterday no clear goal but dont smoke and avoid eating and drinking. I had two sips of coke yesterday and a nibbles of mini muffin packs and hit a roach. Didnt eat anything else til this morning before 9am it was broccoli and water. I wanna try and wait til the sun goes down to eat something again. But this is also my first fast. But I think im doing it wrong and wanna start over but is that playing with God? I grew up Christian non-domination(went to church for 2 years 11-13). But I feel like there's a lot of noise within and there's a peace im looking for that I get when I smoke but I understand it's temporary. Which is why im seeking God I wanna forever feel peace/happy. But it's so hard bc when I don't smoke/or distract myself with food or social media my thoughts are negative or just really all over the place im going through a million and one scenarios and thoughts of different versions of myself in the multiverse and all types of junk. Or theres stress over bills and how I can stretch my money and food. Then there's worries that im not being the best mom I can be or the best person I can be like im not maxing out my potential and taking care of me. And because m not maxing out my potential im failing at all other aspects im worried ab ! It's like a cycle in my head and im so desperate to end it ! Does anyone else kno how im feeling !? Is this burn out? Like im only 22 I've seen what happens when u burnout and I don't want those problems. And ik burning out looks different in everyone but idk im just scared and it's making my head hurt. Im tired of the food recalls and being told everything is bad for me! It's sooooo stressful when I have to cook food and be scared to feed my baby and self. Like I wanna make sure my baby has all the nutrients she needs but how can I afford to do this ! They took my food stamps two months ago and feeding struggle meals to lil one makes me feel horrible. I have 3 roommates make 18.50 an hour and live in a city with a huge lack in public transportation. I make too much for childcare assistance. Im just so spread thin. I just wanna stay home with my baby and sit in a field of grass with the sun shining on our faces and we eat fruit and charcuterie boards. That's all I want.

This is kind of a crossover question but for people who have watched/read the handmaid tales do we think Bree would've been a Serena joy all for Gilead type or do you think she would've resisted? I know shes all serve your husband republican and gun blazing I love America. But she has a more say as I do not as I do type of thing goin for herself. Would she have been apart of mayday? Or would she have a handmaid?

Im 22 almost 23 I have a one year old and stay in ATL currently working as a warehouse associate. Im in an awkward position like most of America where u make too much for food and childcare assistance but ur struggling to stay afloat. I wanna change that for myself and my lil person that calls me mom. I took a long gap year after high school which im regretting but not losing my mind over. But I was thinking around tax time I’d like to start some type of schooling/trade and trying to make a better life for my family. I was thinking phlebotomy but I hear mixed reviews about hiring and over saturation. The course depending on where I attend varies from a week-4 ish months. I want something that’ll work with the schedule of being a mom. The most important part of this journey is making sure I have the availability to be there for her. Being a mother has genuinely been the best thing thats happened to me and I wanna do everything I can to make her proud of me and show her a different life than what I had. So can yall drop off some trades or jobs so I can make my switch.

Im 22 almost 23 I have a one year old and stay in ATL currently working as a warehouse associate. Im in an awkward position like most of America where u make too much for food and childcare assistance but ur struggling to stay afloat. I wanna change that for myself and my lil person that calls me mom. I took a long gap year after high school which im regretting but not losing my mind over. But I was thinking around tax time I’d like to start some type of schooling/trade and trying to make a better life for my family. I was thinking phlebotomy but I hear mixed reviews about hiring and over saturation. The course depending on where I attend varies from a week-4 ish months. I want something that’ll work with the schedule of being a mom. The most important part of this journey is making sure I have the availability to be there for her. Being a mother has genuinely been the best thing thats happened to me and I wanna do everything I can to make her proud of me and show her a different life than what I had. So can yall drop off some trades or jobs so I can make my switch.

Hey 22 F here Why is it that when I try and do good and plan myself a better life something dramatic and low key life changing happens!!

Tired of a relationship and ready to let it go because now I KNOW I deserve better I get pregnant and gotta interact with him for the baby no problem I get it together and take care of myself and enjoy my pregnancy!!!

Then I have my baby start beefing with family and gotta move from family housing on a two week notice with a baby who less than 3 months old!! I secure us a place 30 days later im in a car accident minutes before picking up my kid!!

I go almost 5 months without a car I got one in march and totaled it 3 months later yesterday a week after my baby’s birthday so you know im extra broke lol! The same day im making moves to educate myself financially so I can break a cycle of generational poverty! I’m actively planning checks and creating budgets! No savings yet but Like I just wanna provide my daughter a beautiful comfortable life. Just me and my lil girl!! I wanna show her thats so much to life I want her to travel and try different things!! I want to raise my daughter to be so confident and smart and courageous she’s comfortable enough to live in another country and learn its languages!! How can I do that when every time I try to pour into myself something crazy happens that causes me to redirect my energy!!!! I planned my return to getting education in the healthcare system some type of certification that take no longer than a year and half max! I never decided! I literally had no reason to be out other than helping my roommate at the last minute!

Bad things happen when I try to help people and when I try to advance my life and I wanna know why ! I wanna know if Gods plans for me are to genuinely stay where I am at! How do I break this cycle of misfortune? Im not the most spiritual person and I’m working on that but goodness!!

Let me also say I’m so very grateful that my daughter and I walked away with our health and our lives!!

I have a really good idea for a film and idk how to go about writing it or making a script. O feel like I need an outline how we used to have in school but can’t find the right template. Any tips or something that can be helpful?