This is my first cat ever. She’s 4 months old and so incredibly clingy. She loves napping on my chest, sitting perched on my shoulder, and toy springs. She also is incredibly tiny with the longest tail i’ve ever seen.
Looking for name ideas that are not your typical names for black cats. Something fun and unique
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. Never met her family despite her knowing mine quite well. I’m entirely fine with this. Her parents are homophobic and her only sibling (sister) is the reason I want some advice.
Her sister isn’t homophobic. Has even dated a woman before. She’s just mean to me. It’s to the point I have to have her blocked on all social medias or I never hear the end of comments about any negative thing you could say about me. I think a good portion of it has to do with the fact that I am a butch lesbian/how I look. She is 24 years old. I think it’s insane the only way to keep my peace is to have her grown adult sister blocked. I spent all of Christmas crying alone bc she found one of my social medias and apparently said enough awful things (gf didn’t elaborate) that my partner told me I needed to block her and provided links to her pages. Her sister had also said and done absolutely despicable things to my girlfriend over the years. I can’t elaborate for privacy reasons.
Recently my girlfriend and her sister appear to be getting closer. Refollowing eachother on social media, planning a whole beach trip this friday, etc. I think i’m building resentment over it. I feel like I can’t talk about it because I don’t think she’ll react well. I’m at the point where i’m uncomfortable with her getting close to her again. I don’t feel safe when my girlfriend posts me on her social media anymore because her sister will see. I am upset and I think bordering on mad at this situation. I love her, but I feel like i’m chained to a bully forever. I spent my younger years being bullied for how I look/who I am and I hate to let that enter my adulthood. I don’t think she gets it (my gf).
I think i’m at the point where I think this is giving me second thoughts about our future together that I always dreamed about since we met. I don’t know how to deal when we move in together in the next year. Her sister absolutely cannot know our address and I’m not sure my girlfriend will be okay with that. I love her so dearly we have such a wonderful and loving bond it feels like this is ruining everything. I’m not sure i can get over what her sister has done. I don’t think her sister acted like this to any of her other partners. It makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. Her sister is going to drive me away i fear if this doesn’t get resolved.
I feel alone. I don’t think ahe sees how this affects me. I just really needed to rant I’m sorry this is long.
what do I even do? talking to her about this is so incredibly hard. i feel like she won’t react well. i can’t tell her to pick me or her sister, because i think she’d always pick her sister and that’s insane of me to ask of someone.
She lurks on here and I almost hope she sees this.
Hi! New to cats in general, but I’ve recently started leaving some water and food out for the neighborhood cats as it’s quite hot and I’m worried for their wellbeing. They seem to inhabit the abandoned shed next to my house. There’s at least 5 of them of all varying colors. I leave out a bunch of water and some wet food twice a day and some small cat treats sometimes.
Onto my question, there’s this one beautiful kitten that can’t be more than 2-3 months old. It walks around just fine and keeps his distance just somewhat watching me. It seems very playful I’ve seen it playing with a toy spring I left out for it. I was wondering if there’s a chance I could try to make it an indoor cat? I would absolutely take it to get checked out at a vet before doing so, but I was just wondering if this is ethical? I’m not sure if it’s best to leave him be, he seems pretty young.
If i’m alright to try taking him in , is there a good way to do this? Do I just keep feeding him and the other cats and hope for the best? I’m moving in about a month to a new place, so I don’t have forever, but I worry he’ll get hit by a car. I live on a busy road and often find the small ones hit:/
Hi! I’ve been looking into fostering a cat, I’d like to do some good with my free time and get an animal out of a shelter and hopefully to a forever home.
I am currently living alone at a place that, on my lease, allows only animals listed as service animals or emotional support animals. I actually have a letter from my therapist saying that I personally benefit from an animal already.
My main question was just; would a shelter allow this? I will be moving in about 2 months to a place that allows pets fully with no need for an ESA requirement. Unsure if I should just wait!
I have the opportunity to buy this bike for $150. It is in working order, but I have no other clues about the condition of it or what year it was produced exactly. Is this a worthwhile purchase?