u/reddicore

So yeah I have a bit of a temper every time I get criticism, joking insults, and backhanded compliments. Even when the intention is positive, I feel like there's a real hidden intent or hate behind it. And if I try to fix it some of them will show their hate and anger and it kind of hurts me and makes me mad about it. Pati ako nagagalit na din pag sila nainis din lmao.

How do you deal with this guys? I'm early in my career and I'm starting to hate almost everyone because of this. I have temper. Paano kumalma even with the simplest jokes.

How not to let their words go under my skin? How to calm down din everytime you find yourself getting mad.

ECE gradz So my endgame is DevOps kaya lang di ko alam ano suno maganda ibuild up muna. My passion is Fullstack talaga pero gusto ko daanan yung Network Eng. so I'm taking CCNA just in case. Which is better, Fullstack or Network Eng.? Also maganda pa rin ba yung Network Eng. or Fullstack for stability at salary growth at pang abroad?

ECE gradz So my endgame is DevOps kaya lang di ko alam ano suno maganda ibuild up muna. My passion is Fullstack talaga pero gusto ko daanan yung Network Eng. so I'm taking CCNA just in case. Which is better, Fullstack or Network Eng.? Also maganda pa rin ba yung Network Eng. or Fullstack for stability at salary growth at pang abroad?

I realized that when you please people, you are building a boundary against yourself but not for others. So you say no to yourself or your standards but yes to others. Metaphorically, you are building a wall that lets you trap yourself. you should build walls but in a proper way that doesn't trap yourself. You don't say yes all the time of course. You have hands to build walls / your hands not their hands that's why you have authority of your own decisions. Hope this breaks people pleasing. Man, this shower thought is too deep.

Totoo marami ka pinagdadaanan puro negatibo nalang naririnig. Pero anong bagay ang nagbigay buhay sayo ngayon? Kahit maliit lang ito.