u/revstock

i am a trans man with a cis girlfriend. we have explored some options in the bed but a few months ago i started to make some comments about my “dick” and how she should suck on it.

forward to a few days ago she told me that she wanted to lose her virginity with me, and i was taken aback. im her first kiss (a few years ago) , and her first really pleasurable sexual experience.

so i started searching on reddit, tiktok (i know i know..) and google. i dont feel like wearing a strap on, but the boxer type, which i know depend on the O-ring.

i discussed with her what size she would want and went for a 6inch so that its gonna be comfortable. i saw a bundle on WET FOR HER and the price is acceptable.

now the question is how do i prepare her? how do i prepare myself? i really have no idea what questions to ask. anyone who can give me a tip or a recommendation is really appreciated.

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i am a trans man with a cis girlfriend. we have explored some options in the bed but a few months ago i started to make some comments about my “dick” and how she should suck on it.

forward to a few days ago she told me that she wanted to lose her virginity with me, and i was taken aback. im her first kiss (a few years ago) , her first really pleasurable sexual experience.

so i started searching on reddit, tiktok (i know i know..) and google. i dont feel like wearing a strap on, but the boxer type, which i know depend on the O-ring.

i discussed with her what size she would want and went for a 6inch so that its gonna be comfortable. i saw a bundle on WET FOR HER and the price is acceptable. now the question is how do i prepare her? how do i prepare myself? i really have no idea what questions to ask.

am 16 ani, deabia facuti, came out of the closet at 10 to my friends and at 11 to my family (theyre accepting so thats a nice addition). la 6 ani o intrebam pe mama de ce nu pot fi baiat, de ce nu pot fi in aceeasi echipa cu ei(nici nu intelegeam standardele lumii dar stiam ca voiam sa fiu baiat) asadar pot spune ca mereu am stiut ca sunt in corpul gresit.

am niste probleme de cand am 10 ani, depresie severa, ganduri negre, anxietate si disforie de gen, toate diagnosticate de psihiatri si psihologi.

am gasit o endocrinoloaga care este queer friendly si da testosteron la minori, totusi este la privat, asta insemnand bani. totusi un control este 300-350 de lei.

asa ca am o intrebare pentru persoanele care au inceput tratamentul hormonal de testosteron.

cat costa analizele? cat m ar duce sa fac acest pas spre tranzitia mea?