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Recently, I've been considering whether to study in Korea or the USA for college. My goal is to pursue medicine, and I want to go to Korea for the vibe, but I also want to choose the country that offers better opportunities. Specifically, I'm aiming for a top-tier school, not just any college.
We are from the Philippines. My mother is the main applicant under the EB3 visa, so I was wondering what necessities or things I should bring to Mill Valley, California. Like suitable for the weather or maybe things I need there, before moving. Yeah
I have a brother who is 11 months younger than me, so we're considered Irish twins. I get really annoyed when he acts overly confident; I'm not sure if I'm being too harsh, but it bothers me when he tries to show off or implies he's better. Maybe it annoys me because he's often praised for this behaviour. Growing up in an environment filled with girls, he's quite dependent and lacks respect for women. This really irritates me. Once, he Naruto'd my girl classmates' butts- trust me, I was so mad I wanted to hit him. He thought it was okay. He was scolded, but then my mom laughed, so he took it as approval. He's praised because he's one of the few boys in my family. My dad is abroad and absent most of the time, and my grandpa passed away. I think this has made him somewhat immature, given the constant praise and lack of male role models. Recently, he's been practicing basketball; after practice, he tried showing off his skills in a way that made it clear he's trying to prove he's better than me. My mom hasn't let me enroll in singing lessons because she says I don't need to, but I want to improve my singing. Singing is my main talent- I'm not just an average singer. My brother never really sung until recently, and now he's started, and my mom praises him so much. The whole family does, which is really frustrating. I haven't received much spotlight because of him, so I feel like I'm on my own. What do you think?
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I grew up in an environment where my brother was favored, he was funny, didn't care about his academics, tambokikoy, extrovert and engaging—while I was the complete opposite. Often times I would see my family liking him more because of his traits of course, I was side-eyed, left out and yeah I felt alone. It wasn't a nice feeling of course I tried fitting in, but I'd rather be myself. Growing up I slowly hated my brother, he was prideful and would show off Infront of me. When my mother came home on 2024 (she's OFW) since she got deported, my life became much worse. We constantly had fights, my mental health was becoming worse, but she thinks mental health is an overreaction for me since I'm still a teen. I hated her for that. She always put my feelings down, making her the right one. One day, we had an huge argument. I told her why would you give birth if you can't even handle basic mother traits. (She relies on us she acts like a baby, and makes us do everything when I say everything I mean everything she's just lying on the bed the whole day) I forgot what else we argued about but I won the argument. The reason why we constantly had fights is because of my brother, my sibling became dependent and such a fucking baby after my mom came because she babied him. I hated that, sometimes he even ugh idk anymore. I hate my life I hate my family I wish to make a movie on this to point out the daughters who have been neglected.
Me and my mom often fights.. more than often I'm tired of it I just wanna kms I'm still a teen ...... I really hate her idk why I need serious help too 😭😭 I just hate the way it seems like when I do something like a bad behavior not most of the time it's really a big deal like to the point I have to go to another place but when my brother does it often idk he just seems to get away it really irritates me that's why I mostly side eye her and ignore her probably that's why she hates me too idk I just wanna die and go already
Me and my mom often fights I don't know if I'm the problem or her I'm still a teen so it's pretty hard for me 😞 I wanted to do it multiple times but there was my grandma to help me...