u/saddiebitch123

Went to my bf's house and felt like dying 19f

19f went to my b.f's house for 3 days with my bf's 2 friends and felt like dying. They are nice people but omg what an orthodox family i couldn't survive anymore. First of all i am not castiest but his family is orthodox brahmin , my family is brahmin too but my parents are not orthodox and quite understanding. They hail from a remote town in the western ghats of karnataka, very orthodox. They dont eat spice, we eat a lot of spice, and even pickles that are supposed to be spicy are sweet somehow. They dont eat onion and garlic 😭😭 , even my grandparents dont eat, but they don't impose i have my own food choices, they believe in some swamyji very blindly its scary and more weird shit.

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u/saddiebitch123 — 1 day ago

Went to my b.fs house and felt like dying

19f went to my b.f's house for 3 days felt like dying. They are nice people but omg what an orthodox family i couldn't survive anymore. First of all i am not castiest but his family is orthodox brahm1n , my family is brahm1n too but my parents are not orthodox and quite understanding. They live in some remote town in the western ghats of karnataka, very orthodox. They dont eat spice, we eat a lot of spice, and even pickles that are supposed to be spicy are sweet somehow. They dont eat onion and garlic 😭😭 , even my grandparents dont eat, but they don't impose i have my own food choices, they believe in some swamyji very blindly its scary and more weird shit.

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u/saddiebitch123 — 1 day ago

Aitk for not wanting to look after baby

19f here almost 20. My cousin sis 29f has baby 13 months old. If i am being very frank, i do not like him. Not the baby himself, but the duties and i have never found babies cute. First off i dont understand why the fuck should i look after him ?? He is not my kid right? Imo babies are attention seekers who need entertainment all of the times , why should i entertain your baby?? Please have kids only if you are aware of the duties that come along, yes its indeed a tiring job but i dont owe you shit. I am not responsible for your shit. Today that baby was grabbing my phone, i pulled my phone and said no. Mom comes and says nobody is there to entertain him looking at me and says i was rude? What the fuck does this woman think ? What should i do? Let him eat my phone? And entertain him? I think she is so entitled aitk. i generally dont like to interact with him and i have never found him cute tbh.

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u/saddiebitch123 — 3 days ago

Accidentally told my friend's mom he has backlogs

Actually he isn't very close, but we talk to each other occasionally. Yesterday i 20f went to my tier 3 college to pay my back fees and he came with his mother. Being an introvert who doesn't know how to start conversations, i asked him if he had come to pay the back fees as well. He said he doesn't have any, but i was confused cus when i checked his result it showed failed in 6 subjects, so i asked him again as yesterday was the last day to pay the fees. After coming home i realised he hid it from his mom, he also messaged me that i ruined his secret. I have accidentally broke my friendship.

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u/saddiebitch123 — 4 days ago

I have a serious problem

Im 19f addicted to buying makeup which i actually never use. Not just makeup i buy lots of skincare everytime even when its not needed now i have too many and i just cant stop myself. What do i do i literally have all brands but in actual reality there are too many so i would never use all of them. I have shopping addiction

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u/saddiebitch123 — 6 days ago