A year a widow i feel lost it was his memorial today.
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Hi im 50f Today marks one year since my wonderful husband 51m passed away. We were together for 26 years and have three amazing children. It’s hard to believe it’s been a year; it feels like a lifetime. We held a memorial for him at a club he loved, and it was packed. Everyone loved him there, and it was a fitting tribute to the incredible man he was.
He was such a great dad, a proud girl dad, and he made sure everyone knew how proud he was to be a father to his daughters they were his world. The day I met him, I knew he was a good person, but I never expected to go on such a beautiful journey with him. I would choose him every single time.
The last year has been incredibly difficult. I feel like I lost a big part of myself. I’ve tried to stay strong, especially for our youngest daughter, but I haven’t really had a chance to sit and cry. We were supposed to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary this July. I feel lost and heartbroken.
His memorial today was a beautiful celebration of his life. His dad and brother made it so special, and his mother held my hand, comforting each other and sharing in the grief. I was so lucky to have him in my life, and I will always cherish the time we had together and the memories we made. He will forever be missed. My thomas.