Looking for solidarity 2 years after birth trauma

As the title says I'm almost 2 years pp and the thought of touching or pushing on my scar still gives me like a gutteral ick. I see scar adhesion massage videos and almost gag thinking about doing that to myself. I had an emergency c section, then 5 days later they reopened it due to a massive haematoma and then after my scar opened up in 2 spots with 3cm holes. There's so much trauma attached to that part of my body. I want to have a second, and I know that I'm a great VBAC candidate but am I dreaming to think that I can do this while I still feel so ick about it?

Anyway, just wanted to vent and ask if others have the same feelings this far pp?

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u/saraharchie93 — 21 hours ago

Weaning q!

I'm ready to wean.

I'm down to just a bed time feed of 4 mins on each boob now, timing for the last few nights. How should I progress from here?

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u/saraharchie93 — 18 days ago

FTB and CCS while child on vaccine catch up schedule

Hi all!

A bit confused. My child started his catch up schedule today receiving his first jab and that was immediately updated on his health record and immunisation statement.

My Centrelink app still says immunisation requirements are overdue. My FTB is also the same.

Anyone know if and when the FTB goes up to the full rate and when I can apply for CCS if it still says immunisation overdue? The hospital has checked the 'approved plan' button on the register.

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u/saraharchie93 — 1 month ago

Ovulating early after baby!

Maybe TMI BUT my little one is 20 months. Pre baby I used to know I was ovulating approx 2 weeks into my cycle from some egg white thick ish discharge. Now? The day after my period ends I'm having literally blobs of thick clear jelly discharge for 3-4 days. Has anyone else had this?! Does it go back to normal? Or am I just a jelly girl forever

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u/saraharchie93 — 2 months ago

Parents of kids on vax catch up plans!

Hi all!

Our little one is finally starting his catchup plan at almost 2 years old and I cannot find a clear answer online, nor from the WCH or parent helpline lol.

We will be enrolling him in a family daycare in July, and I understand the catch up plan states 6 months BUT is that 6 months to finish all of them? Due to his issues we need to separate certain vaccinations which means he will be missing some (all approved) but it then means he can't be given combo vaccines. Long story short, as long as he is adhering to the plan and NOT skipping them will we be able to stay enrolled in daycare?

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u/saraharchie93 — 2 months ago

Adelaide brides and grooms - free content creation

Hi! Unsure of where to find what I'm looking for so thought I'd try here! I've decided after 10+ years in content creation I wanted to move over to wedding creation, but I need some brides to build my portfolio! Would be totally free in exchange for 6 hours content creation. Any ideas on where I can find some brides and grooms ?!

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u/saraharchie93 — 2 months ago

In true Centrelink fashion, I went in last week to find out the study rules around how many hours I can do, to be told I had to make an appointment over the phone and wait til yesterday to be told I had to call disabilities :) the absolute worst

Long story short, I have assessed capability for 0-7 hours but mainly due to physical restraints. I just got accepted into uni and want to study part time (online) approx 25-30% work load. Can I do that on DSP without my payment being cut off?

Any help appreciated!

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u/saraharchie93 — 2 months ago

Hi! 33F.
Has happened as long as I can remember. Any time I have GOOD orgasm (boring ones don't do it) I go temporarily deaf in my left ear. It's not a true deaf, but it's deaf none the less lol. Any clues as to why? No significant health history related to this.

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u/saraharchie93 — 2 months ago