Wrote something? You don't have to post it.
Or, Millennial re-discovers journaling?
You're allowed to just write something and not post it on Reddit or elsewhere online.
Maybe we've fallen into the modern attention trap of monetized social media and our default belief "they" push on us that sharing is good, which keeps us using and returning to these platforms. Maybe we stubbornly stick to the ideals of the old web, which dies a little bit more every day and is essentially irrelevant for how 99% of people use the internet.
When I invest effort into writing an essay, nearly all of the benefit is from the act of writing itself. It lets me organize and clarify my thoughts and develop new insights.
I get almost nothing in return for sharing it online. I don't respect the opinions of the average Redditor, so what do I care if they agree or disagree with me? If my post gets popular and gets several dozen comments, maybe one or two will actually be useful feedback (e.g. made me reconsider something I wrote, or introduces a new perspective). The rest of the replies are junk.
About a month ago I put effort into writing about a 1,000 word essay over on /r/nosurf. "The internet feels more barren every day, after 20 mins I'm already bored" was the title. My post was removed immediately, I think because I dared to mention "AI" in the essay and the AutoMod snagged it. The inactive mod never logged in to approve my post, so it just went into the void and nobody got to read it. And I realized I wasn't missing out on anything, I had already gotten what I needed to get out of it simply through the act of writing the piece.
I just laughed when I checked the new queue on /r/nosurf after my post was removed and saw it filled with astroturfing ads for vibecoded screentime apps and super low effort posts of like one or two sentences. Yet again we see AutoMod keyword removals mainly hurt actual humans, while the spammers get through on volume alone. Actually let's redux the title... "Wrote something? You may not be allowed to post it."
We (that being humans) are barely wanted here anymore. "They" need you to make their money, but they don't want you to have a voice. It seems the ideal Redditor user is someone who logs in several times throughout the day, silently scrolls and consumes their daily dose of bot slop and agitprop from "approved users", upvotes, maybe drops a couple pointless GIF replies or low-effort "this" comments...
Since then I've written several essays in my note taking app of choice, stuff I would normally post on Reddit, and I didn't. I just kept it private and offline. And I missed out on nothing, if anything I gained because I didn't feel obligated to log back into Reddit a few times that day and check for replies.
And yes, it will be very quirky, unique, and clever to respond something like "but you posted this on Reddit!" I'm not sure why I felt the need to share this one. Maybe I'm hoping to convince others of what I've come to see, and accelerate the death spiral of this site by removing what little remains of the human element.