Positive c-section at Royal Preston Hospital

Hi everyone, I wanted to write out my recent experience of c-section at Royal Preston Hospital in the hopes it gives some assurance or context for anyone else, as I used this sub extensively through my pregnancy and learnt so much from everyone, and hope to pay it forward somehow. ✨

Sorry it’s long! And if I’ve missed anything please blame newborn brain 🥴🙃

Background:

I elected for a c-section from the moment my pregnancy was confirmed viable at my 6 week scan (IVF pregnancy after 5 years TTC). Whilst my initial booking in appointment in Preston was delayed, everything else since under the hospital trust and local midwife team’s care has been really positive.

C-section prep:

In the days prior to my c-section I had to take the below (which was given to me at my final hospital consultation the week before):
- specific antacid tablets (omeprazole once a day for two days prior)
- an anti-sickness tablet the day before
- plus the pre-load drinks day before / morning of procedure to supplement meals and reduce nausea after the procedure. (The drinks tastes of nothing at all (bland!) so nothing to worry about if you’re wondering!)

C-section day:

My c-section was scheduled for the afternoon (I was informed via Badger App a week before) so my partner and I arrived at the Delivery Suite for 12:30pm. After a brief wait in a small waiting room initially, me and my other half were set up in a private room with a bed and chair and rested there between separate consultations and paperwork with the anaesthetist, midwife and surgeon over the span of an hour or so. Everyone was really friendly and accomodating and gave us chance to ask questions in each consultation. We then knew our approx time to head to theatre (3pm), so just chilled out as best as we could.

After changing into our gowns and me with my slippers we walked to theatre together with the midwife and met the full surgical team of smiling faces. This was about 3pm. We were again talked through every step as it happened from the cannula, spinal etc. I was gently laid down on the table and we put on our music playlist too. My partner stayed by my side throughout. There was a lovely buzz in the room as everyone was so positive and communicative. There was lots of preparation, and the surgical team setting up, including shaving me down there (I hadn’t seen what was going on down there for a long time so god knows what they had to deal with! 😂)

Baby’s birth:

Before we knew it after about 10 minutes of the surgical team working away, including sucking out the extra fluid I knew I was carrying in my womb, I finally heard my baby’s cry for the first time, and the curtain was dropped whilst one of my favourite songs played in the background 🥰 he was born at 15:56. It was such a blur in retrospect!

My partner and I cried as we saw his little face for the first time, and the midwife team helped take lots of photos of the baby as he emerged whilst me and my partner were just in awe and in shock.

We were really looked after by the team, I was sewn back up (I was in a baby daze I didn’t notice anything) and baby was placed on my chest for cuddles and loads more photos kindly taken by the midwives.

Recovery:

Then I was being wheeled to the recovery ward for immediate checks, my toast 🙌 and compression socks added to my very numb legs. I had my cannula still attached and a blood pressure sensor on my finger too. It felt very weird not being able to move or feel my legs 😩

After what felt like 15 mins I was wheeled to the maternity ward to find a cubicle for the night. Our ward was thankfully quiet, just one other couple in their cubicle.

The njght’s stay:

We had our bags out (I was in such a daze I don’t remember how they got there!) and made ourselves comfortable, with baby in his little bassinet. I was checked over every 15 mins by different midwives for the first hour or so, then about every 30 mins next hour or so. I had my pads changed regularly as I was bleeding, my blood pressure taken etc. I was also offered pain relief (morphine) when the anaesthetic wore off which I gladly took. I kept on top of the midwives to keep asking for this, the ward was short staffed and I did have to keep chasing up my pain relief a few times.

At one point late in the night a midwife helped me to the toilet in our ward for a shower, and to try wee. I had to wee in a small cardboard container and I had to pull the emergency bathroom cord once I’d filled it, to bring a nurse out as they had to see I had wee’d.

Our first night I didn’t sleep lots as I was admitedly uncomfortable from the cannula/legs slowly recovering from spinal etc, and because I was in awe of our little one and obsessing over his every breath.

my partner was able to sleep next to me on a fold out chair in our little cubicle. Really private and relatively quiet, dare I say calming?!

The next morning:

The next day I had breakfast and lunch from the catering at the hospital, and my partner headed home briefly, when he came back baby had his checks with the midwife and we just had to have a final assessment with a midwife at the bedside before we could leave. We left around 3pm and headed home to enjoy our newborn bubble!

All in all I have such wonderful memories of my c-section experience. I’m recovering well now and loving being a mum.

Best of luck to everyone approaching their baby’s birth! 💜

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u/seejonesokay — 1 day ago

Thank you gift for baby’s Dad

My other half has been incredible since my baby was born 5 weeks ago. I’ve been blown away at him stepping up to support both me and the baby in ways I couldn’t have predicted (especially as we have very little family nearby and he’s even picked up a new job to help bring in more income whilst I’m on mat leave).

I want to treat him to something as a thank you, as I literally couldn’t get through each day without him (and these last few days have been some of the most challenging in my life).

He loves his whiskey, gaming, riding his bike and going for walks - most of these things have taken a back seat in recent weeks of course.

I have thought of generic things like a bottle of favourite whiskey or maybe a voucher for his game console, but just thought I’d reach out here if anyone’s ever gifted baby’s dad to something as a thank you, and any other suggestions? Maybe something that could help him in these challenging newborn weeks? Thanks in advance! ✨

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u/seejonesokay — 3 days ago

Julian (Jules) or Elliott

Hi everyone ☺️ would love your thoughts!

We’re a British couple living in the UK for context, looking for impressions of our baby boy name options. Mainly:
Julian (nn Jules - would likely go by this?)
Elliott

Also considered Joshua, Jude (altho similar to Jules) and Kieran (we have some Irish heritage).

Middle name is likely Charles after baby’s paternal grandfather who is no longer with us.

Surname begins with H and ends in an ‘ee’ - think Humphrey etc but not that literally.

Welcoming any thoughts and preferences, if you strongly dislike the options though I’d appreciate if you could hold off any hate for the sake of it as such, thanks so much everyone 🙏🥰

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u/seejonesokay — 1 month ago

T-minus 9 days til C-Section, bucket list suggestions?!

FTM - my 39w C-Section has been booked in 9 days (woo!) and I’m wondering what you lovely people would recommend I or my partner do in the final child-free days we have remaining? Whether practical or just for fun? Did you have a ‘bucket list’ of sorts before your baby’s arrival? I’m fairly slow waddling around which is probs no surprise at this point but open to ideas 😂

I’m fairly comfortable we have all baby essentials prepped as much as we can anyway til we meet the little man (hospital bags packed, car seat fitted etc). But I’ll always take more advice if anyone can suggest anything they think might help!

I’ve read other similar posts in the past here, so apologies if this feels repetitive, just curious what the current active community would recommend as you’ve all been so helpful on my journey so far.

I’m both super excited to meet my little guy, and suddenly also feeling tense 😬 like preparing for an exam I’ve anticipated for months!

Thanks in advance everyone ☺️

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u/seejonesokay — 2 months ago

Big baby, small bump

Curious if anyone shares this experience really and if you can relate. I’m 35 weeks with a baby in the 95th percentile, and in my last two scans I’ve been told I have excess fluid too (marginally, at 9cm MVP).

Alongside this I’ve been told repeatedly by colleagues and family that my bump is ‘neat’ and small for my stage in pregnancy - for whatever that’s worth 🙃 I wasn’t exactly slim when I got pregnant, plenty of belly cushioning going on but within what was a healthy BMI I suppose.

But boy (oh boy!) do I feel the weight of the baby and bump - I had a scan recently and nearly fainted due to the blood circulation pressure when lying on my back. So that’s new! 🫠 I have to repeat my gestational diabetes soon to rule out any issues there. It just feels unusual (and perhaps less common from what I see in these subs) to have such a seemingly ‘big’ baby and extra fluid too, but perhaps not be ‘showing’ as obviously as some expect. Curious if anyone else experienced this and whether it came with any other effects for you, and whether baby really was that big when born?

Btw I totally don’t mind, bump size is irrelevant, most important is that baby is healthy 🥳 and I know that all measurements of baby are to be taken with a pinch of salt, often babies arrives very differently to what’s expected from guesstimates etc. All of that is noted and I’m very grateful to be healthy at this stage of pregnancy so far. ☺️

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u/seejonesokay — 2 months ago