u/seekdiscomfort26

Just got The Whole Truth Whey Protein for ₹3,554 on Amazon Fresh and 5% cashback also. I was surprised to see it at this price since it usually seems to be selling for 4.5k. Has anyone else got it for around the same price recently? Seems like a pretty good deal to me.

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I met a girl through a matrimonial site last November. We’ve been talking since then, both families have met, and things are almost finalized. I’ve also become emotionally attached to her, and we both are in love actually.

I always knew her family wasn’t financially well-off, and that was never a problem for me. But recently I found out that their financial situation may be much worse than I knew.

I found from one source that one of her close friends transferred her a total of more than ₹1 lakh over the last year, he transferred her money every month. She seems to have repaid him, but it looks like this happened multiple times. I also found out that there are delayed education-loan payments and that her father has unpaid credit-card dues. I’m not clear about the total debt or who is responsible for what.

I’m not judging her for having financial problems. What worries me is that we are so close to finalizing everything, but none of this was discussed with me. I’m also wondering whether I’ll be expected to support her family or repay any of these debts after marriage.

How can I bring this up without making her feel insulted or embarrassed? Would you consider this a serious red flag, or something that can be managed if she is honest and has a proper plan?