▲ 246 r/tipping

"It's not that easy I have to tip out the others".. you mean you have to share some of the huge tip amount with the people who did most the actual work?

I hear this rebuttal often after years of anti-tip advocacy.

Many restaurants require a server pay anywhere from 10-35% of the total tip amount to the other service staff who don't take the orders from customers. This varies depending on how many people helped serve the food/drink and prepared the dining area. Sometimes the actual cooks receive something too.

The bartender/barrack makes the actual drink.

The food runner and buss boy actually bring out the food and clean the table take the actual gross plates.

The kitchen staff makes the actual food, which is actually the reason any customers actually come in the first place.

What does the server actually do? Write down what you want and bring the drinks. Also bring out the check so you have to be face to face with them when leaving a tip.

Everyone else in the restaurant does more actual work. Yet the servers expect to be paid the most.

On top of all that they complain about the pittance they have to share of the tips they recieved for what they claim is "their sales".

Get real. Servers need to stop being so entitled.

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u/shangumdee — 2 days ago

Visual insight many do not understand the amount of hypergamy until it hits them like a truck

u/shangumdee — 23 days ago

Had both sides of the nail removed by podiatrist and phenoled the root almost a month ago. However the skin has continued to grow over the nail and get embedded. What is the next step here? The nail is already so skinny I don't believe cutting anymore of it is an option.

It's just the right side of the nail BTW.

I've had consistent ingrowns on both feet for years now. I've had nails operated on 3 times by now (at a doctor/podiatrist) but the last one was the only one where the decided to put phenol on both sides.

It seems the issue is the skin around the nail enclosing on the nail then causing the embedded nail.

Perhaps this is due to my weight? I'm about 60-70 lbs overweight. 6 ft. So pretty fat but not morbid obese.

What can I even do at this point?

I really don't want that Vandebros procedure because that just seems excessive nor do I want to pull the nail.

What can I do here?

As for those who say just give it time.. it seems like it was actually doing great on weekends 2 or 3 and now it's back to the same constant friction with embedding into the skin and infections.

Any body had this same issue?

I just cleaned it now but it was looking worse before.

u/shangumdee — 1 month ago
▲ 28 r/coins

Had all my coins in a binder all sorted in plastic dividers. All American from coins pre 1964 the first two pages and then the next page was state quarters. Total value was probably $180-300, nothing devastating.

When my family moved homes I had them in a box. Apparently in the low trust place I live, it's common for movers to just look through your stuff and decide what they want to take. People tell me I should have been watching everything the entire time, which is obviously impossible. That is why I hired a professional moving company. I'm never going to find it, police are useless here.

It makes me angry. However what makes me more angry is the fact that I know whatever bag took it probably sold it for $40 dollars, having zero understanding for the value or appreciation for the time it took to collect, organize, and label everything.

Anyways just a rant. Nothing can be done to recover them. I still have a few but this loss has made me too angry to ever start seriously again.

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u/shangumdee — 2 months ago