First time, random questions
This community is so wonderful! I have gone through a bunch of it but these questions I havent found an answer to yet.
We have a 10yo staying with us. So far, smooth sailing. I'm new at this though and second guessing everything.
Bedtime - Do you check in on your kiddos overnight? He gets settled down very nicely and so far as I know stays in his room overnight. I know he has woken up in the night but it hasn't been disruptive - he told me one morning that he "needed a task for his brain" one night so he put together a small lego set, then went back to sleep. I sleep heavily though so if I should be poking my head in, I want to set alarms and such to make sure it happens.
Allowance - he wants to do chores in exchange for money to save up, I would rather do chores with each other and give him an allowance (maybe with bonuses for extra stuff). Thoughts on a reasonable "rate"? This would be his "fun money", he came to us with essentially nothing so right now clothes, shoes, even toys are necessities I take care of, in my opinion.
Bonus question - he's obsessed with Five Nights at Freddy's so any suggestions for books that would scratch that itch without being too scary would be great.