I’m mainly interested in watching the drama with Ariel and the old man and Harmony freaking out, I want to see videos like, apparently he gave Ariel a flower? I just seem to miss a lot of her lives and I want to follow along and want to catch up about this old man. But other drama is a bonus.
My partner with BPD is very emotionally abusive and has anger issues. I have a 2 year old and 4 year old and am doing everything I can to tolerate him so my kids don’t have a separated family..
I would prefer no comments trying to belittle me about my situation.. thankyou, just looking for others who are in a similar situation so I don’t feel like I’m the only one choosing to do this..
My baby is 22 months old and still nurses often. She loves to nurse. She nurses in the morning when she wakes up once in the middle of the day and to go to sleep and then a few times during the middle of the night she also nurses when she’s hurt or uncomfortable or just any reason. It’s such a bonding thing between herself and I. Am getting a lot of pressure from people to stop nursing, including my fiancé and yesterday at the pediatrician told me to start weaning now. I’m so emotional. I’m so scared and so heartbroken. I was dreading this moment. Did anybody else have a very difficult time when it came to ending this? It’s just so sad to know that this part of our relationship will be gone forever.
I got them about a month ago and I feed them frozen blood worm cubes about every 2-3 days and then I feel the pellets in between. I see them eat some worms but I never see them grazing. Why are they so skinny! They live with 2 mystery snails and a betta and a clown pleco.
It is UNBEARABLE to nurse. It feels like glass shards when she nurses. I have to wait until next week to see doctor.. I’ve taken Advil and cold compress but what else can I do for pain relief, the pain makes me want to faint.
I had a nasty routine that was all over the place and had my girls going to bed some times at midnight and waking up in the afternoon. I worked hard and set a good routine that’s about 8-9pm sleep and 8-9am wake. I feel like 9am is still too late to go to bed and wake up though..
I was in another group that I didn’t realize was talking about the negativity and toxicity and hopelessness of BPD partners and somebody direct me to this group. I have a fiancé that has BPD and I have children with him and I’m trying so hard to make it work. He is a great Dad and works so hard for us to be supported. But he is a very negative person and can ruin any outing by being grumpy or antisocial or even any family event. I love him and sometimes I don’t know why, but I try so hard to make it work so we can be a family and not separated. I yearn for a partner who I can bring around people and not be worried about.. I wish that he was a people person, but he’s absolutely not. I want to accept this as my family and my future, but it’s so hard sometimes because I used to be the most social happy bubbly person ever, but now I feel like I closed myself off, just to not irritate him. I hate when people try to tell me that it’s not going to work. I want so hard to make this work. I’m in the process of accepting this and sometimes I’m happy because I just want us to be a happy little family. On top of raising kids I have to make sure that I don’t do anything wrong to set him off. So it’s difficult. I hate to sayit but I feel like he throws tantrums like a child so I deal with my two toddlers plus him. So being a mom is very difficult at the moment. I just want to hear other people in similar situations and see how they might make things work.
I have 2 kids with my husband who has BPD and he’s a great dad and protective and smart and works hard to support us. He gives us a good life but it’s so hard to deal with the other side of it which is his occasional outbursts and just overall usually horribly negative attitude. I want to have a life with him but it’s a challenge some times.
Can anyone who have kids and/or is settling down with someone with BPD talk about it so I don’t feel like I’m the only one trying so hard and making a bad choice?
My daughter has nice long blonde hair.. on one side of her head.. My brother in law pointed out that he believes it due to her sleeping on that side of her head. He’s a hair stylist so I’m maybe assuming he’s seen this before? It’s just.. hard to style her hair and when I leave her hair just down, she looks so easily disheveled because it looks like one side of her head is an unkept mess, it’s so broken and short and sticks out.. and putting it in a pony tail the little hairs just stick out sideways. Does anyone else have a toddler with the same issue?
Preferably free or paying for ads to go away.
I have downloaded what feels like hundreds of kids and baby game. I always look for the one that has like.. 3-7 free day trial and (try) to cancel the subscriptions before paying, or i just end up having a stupid amount of subscriptions. I am tired of downloading the games and having my 1.5 year old bringing the phone over to me complaining because an ad popped up, or because it’s prompting us to restore a subscription. I don’t mind paying $7 here and there to remove ads if that means I get a life time of none interrupted games.
I am also in Canada… if that makes a difference? And using apple products?
My 3 year old is just finally starting to potty train but she keeps peeing her pants and wetting her bed so when we’re out in public she’s in a diaper and I feel like other parents judge me…