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The hate for zanjeerain
At this point I feel ke zanjeerain mein kuch bhi ho jaye no one will be happy because they don't like the drama. They hate daniyal's really toned down sometimes monotone acting but at the same time hate sajal's acting too. They hated it when rabiya was working in the kitchen and not doing anything yet they also hate it when rabiya see's her husband's murderer and her harasser and reacts. What do they want from the show ?
If rabiya didn't scream or cry when she saw torsam wouldn't it be unnatural. I thought sajal was so real and absolutely fantastic in that scene. Magr now they're saying ke acting over thi. They're comparing sajal in zanjeerain to urwa in aap ki izzat. It's like comparing apples to oranges. I keep getting annoyed by the unfair criticism no one is saying ke zanjeerain is perfect it has both flawed writing and direction but most dramas have these issues.
What project would sajal have to do to stop these people criticising her? From alif to zpkb and angan she has done so many different roles that I feel like it's stupid to even think that she can't act because that's literally impossible. I am so done with all of this because why is every sub trying to hate on zanjeerain and sajal matlab bhai jaan chor do🙏
Having to see your abuser every week
I 17f was physically and emotionally abused by my aunt. I meet her every week on Saturdays sometimes multiple times a week. This is due to family obligations. My aunt not only abused me but also abused my sister. My sister lives abroad. She has forgiven her and is not affected by the things she does anymore but every day I get closer to having a meltdown in front of everyone.
I hate her, she's a hypocrite. She said she wants an abuser free world a world where no child feels unsafe yet she made 10 years of my life hell. She’d constantly get me scolded by everyone, everything I did was wrong. She made me feel so uncomfortable in my own body that I would constantly wear multiple layers so that no one could tell the shape of anything I was 8 years old.
She would bathe me. Once I was crying because mother was admitted at the hospital my father was with her. I was upset so as I was standing in the bathtub, I felt so vulnerable. She used the shower to spray really hot water on my face I cried harder.
I started self harming because of her. She ruined my childhood. I have been on anti depressants for 5 years. I got diagnosed with anxiety and depression. I lost all my confidence. I am constantly scared of messing up or doing anything wrong because I fear that someone will scold me again. I'll be told I am incompetent, unworthy, stupid and every other word.
My parents know about what she did but she's a relative and my uncle's wife. I am currently sitting in the same room as her. I hate her, I hate what she's made me and I hate every word she says.
The weird hate for sajal fans
Does anyone find it excessive? Almost every day I come across post calling our fandom toxic and hating on sajal, whether it's the main sub or that other weird sub reddit. It feels like paid PR.
Dar e Nijat episode 2
I am so sorry alot of the casts English doesn't sound that natural. The production value is so high and the drama looks gorgeous. Nameer and Dure need a few more episodes to establish their characters because right now their acting is a bit weak.
Something haute's review of zanjeerain
Does anyone find them annoying when they discuss zanjeerain. They think sarbuland is flirting with rabiya like dude is depressed, he looks unkempt and is under so much pressure. Talking to biya is the one nice thing in his life. To think that they're flirting is so weird because it just looks like two people trying to comfort and support eachother while dealing with huge losses.
Secondly, they think sarbuland lacks heroism because he's not doing anything. Bro has to find multiple murderers and have everyone he loves die and they want him to do something. It was no doubt a slow episode but their takes are so stupid.
I am constantly annoyed by their reviews of sajal's dramas, they didn't even understand or complete yakeen ka safar. I only watch them as background noise for when I am studying.
The current issue with men in pakistani dramas
We have had our fair share of toxic alpha males but the current rise in insecure and under confident male leads. The ones who pretend to be green flags but turn out to be red flags. These male leads have been abused and have an inferiority complex.
Salman from Dr bahu and aun from zabt are two of the best examples. These men have failed as husbands you can not pretend to be understanding and then lash out and misunderstand your wife. Both salman and aun are no better then men like Dr shahnawaz, faizan and shami ( zabt). They do not listen to the people they claim to love and they do not trust their wives. Such men are worse than toxic male leads because they fool you in to believing that they are green flags and the ideal husbands.
I have zero hopes for Anas in bas tera sath ho because I am sure he will go down the same path. Even shehreyar munawar's character in radd became toxic at the end.
Facing abuse is not excuse to be shitty and hurt other people. Writers who write these characters toy with the viewers feelings and I think it's important do discuss such characters.
What is wrong with desi parents 🙏
My abba got so disappointed that I couldn't format properly on Word that he went upstairs angrily and is now watching tv at the loudest possible volume.
Weird interviews
I don't usually read interviews by show runners but I read the books and watched the show and enjoyed it. My favourite couples are Grace and logan and tucker and sabrina. I was a bit scared by the season switch because bridgerton has traumatised me.
But I read an article in which the show runner said that they don't need to introduce more characters in the show. I don't know if she's trying to throw off fans, build anticipation for the seasons or she has taken a book out of elle kennedy 's school of favouritism but it's such a weird thing to say. They still need to introduce Grace and sabrina and build their characters for their respective seasons🤞. I say this because the stories are intertwined and Grace and sabrina are 2 important characters if we can have jules and other background characters than like we can make room for them.
It's an ensemble show and I find it weird that she said that as it just causes more division in the fandom.
I wish my mother would leave me alone
It's constantly do this do that, yeh dua parho yeh khao yeh piyo yeh karwao. Nahin karwana mujhay kuch bhi leave me alone. My therapist always tells her to give me space when I am upset but my mother isn't the one to believe in giving space. If i am angry or upset she'll hug me I don't want that because than I'll say or do something hurtful magr unhein samajh hi nahin aata hai. I barely leave the house the only people I see are my parents, it's been like that for 2 years I can't do this. I want thori si space I don't want my mother constantly nagging me. She never blames my sister for the shit she does because my sister is married but I need to be understanding. I need to understand that just because she doesn't let me talk without Interrupting, and just starts talking to her husband while I am telling her something important. I can't get angry because my sister has a life and I can just go to hell.
I sometimes think I'd like living in a hostel when I am in university but my mother just laughs at me she says I couldn't manage that I am lazy and would probably never do anything. Maybe I don't want to do anything. I want to live alone because I am so fricking tired of being told what to do. I wish they would leave me alone
Blind rank my top 10 most listened artists 🌟
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Doctor Bahu ep 21 (discussion)
The only character I have sympathy for and absolutely adore is Minah. Hajra yameen has aced the role. Minah deserves so much better.
Sania should have left the house and salman is weird. The downfall of Dr bahu is so real
My digital drawings part 2
(Some of my earlier ones)
And regardless of how much research you do you still won't know. If you're skeptical about things keep it to yourself there is no reason to turn this sub into a place for conspiracy theories.
Secondly people discussing cancer do not and will not understand how serious it is unless you have been through yourself. I had cancer and I also lost my cousin to cancer. My cousin actually beat it but he ended up relapsing after a few months and he passed away. Cancer is not something that magically disappear it leaves long lasting impacts on your body. Chemotherapy, radiotherapy and surgery are not easy, they literally alter your body. Cancer will never be easy because it's not a competition and suffering and pain can not be quantified.
We need to stop talking about this topic if we can't be civil because these are serious topics that deserve respect. Respect the deceased and stop talking about this topic either way.